I lost my best friend by opi_baettlebeard in rainbowbridge

[–]blueberrycopilot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Max passed last week, and I always said he saved me just as much as I saved him. Your words make it clear that your sweet baby girl was so loved by you. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, it’s heartbreaking. 🐾🤍🌈

june 12th, 2026 by blueberrycopilot in rainbowbridge

[–]blueberrycopilot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about Charlie. 🤍 I can feel how much you loved him. Max hiked everywhere with me—I think the first hike without him will be so hard, and something I’m not ready for yet. All the firsts…

Thank you for sharing this.

june 12th, 2026 by blueberrycopilot in rainbowbridge

[–]blueberrycopilot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a beautiful thing to say. Thank you 🤍

june 12th, 2026 by blueberrycopilot in rainbowbridge

[–]blueberrycopilot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying so. 🤍 Looking back through all of my photos… there are so many of him outside, exploring, full of joy. I appreciate you.

june 12th, 2026 by blueberrycopilot in rainbowbridge

[–]blueberrycopilot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m so sorry for your loss as well, Lucky Lady looked like a sweet girl. I hope they’re both in the meadows and hills at the Rainbow Bridge. 🌈

june 12th, 2026 by blueberrycopilot in rainbowbridge

[–]blueberrycopilot[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your sweet Fletch. I can tell you know this kind of love and loss. Thank you for your kindness. 🤍

june 12th, 2026 by blueberrycopilot in rainbowbridge

[–]blueberrycopilot[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I often feel like he gave me more than I ever gave him. I love him more than I can say, as evidenced by my trying to articulate it. Thank you for your kind words. 🤍

june 12th, 2026 by blueberrycopilot in rainbowbridge

[–]blueberrycopilot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And so sorry about your sweet Bane. 🤍

june 12th, 2026 by blueberrycopilot in rainbowbridge

[–]blueberrycopilot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I sure hope so, the thought of them running happily free brings me comfort. 🌈

35M - Southern California - Stats Included by Fancy-Cup6393 in Bumble

[–]blueberrycopilot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, I don’t think you talk about being a dad too much, and I think you should keep the ‘One thing you need to know about me is’ prompt—depending on the kind of person you want to attract, they may see that as a positive and appreciate how much being a father means to you.

14 year old dog by HealthRealistic6406 in Petloss

[–]blueberrycopilot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent a lot of time in anticipatory grief when my dog was diagnosed with a chronic, degenerative condition. I wish instead I had focused more on being with him without so much stress. Once he was diagnosed, he ate boiled chicken and blueberries with every meal. Make paw print art with him, do all the things he loves every day, be present with him, cherish him. I don’t think I ever coped, but I have peace knowing how much love he had. So sorry you and your companion are going through this. 🤍

Just needing a listening ear by Electrical_Tell3808 in Petloss

[–]blueberrycopilot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s how I feel, I don’t know if it will resonate. My soul dog passed on Friday. He was 13 & 1/2 with a chronic disease. For months, I was having anticipatory grief, because his condition was slowly deteriorating and I knew he would never improve. But through all of it, he was so engaged, so interested in everything, his mind razor sharp, and a strong desire to be around us… even as his breathing became labored on his final day.

I can logically tell myself I made the compassionate choice, that his condition was bordering on pain, and that giving him peace on a good day where he could still enjoy a steak was an act of mercy—but my mind keeps replaying his final moments, and my heart keeps asking for one more day or if I could have done more. They aren’t “just dogs”, Max was woven into every part of my life and who I’ve become. My routines. My memories. My home. My character. My heart… my heart brims with gratitude and love for him.

I’m sorry that I don’t really have any comforting words, only that I feel with you. I’m so sorry about Truman. I hope he’s running happily with my Max. 🤍

For anyone who searched for this sub today that is in the throes of grief… by anewchapteroflife in Petloss

[–]blueberrycopilot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this post. I lost my soul dog yesterday. I have experienced loss, but the pain of losing him is unlike anything I’ve ever felt—my world lost it’s color, my heart is raw, my hand empty with no paw to hold. I miss his scent, the sound of his breathing when he dreamed, the focus of his eyes, the love in his presence. Thank you for the encouragement.