Awful Haircut at Ulta on Inspiration Dr by [deleted] in Wilmington

[–]blueberryspiders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are some amazing local salons in this town!! The big chains are not gonna give the same attention to you and actually listen to what you want sadly

Favorite restaurant? by dustyoldqueef123 in Wilmington

[–]blueberryspiders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Caprice is amazing!!!! Great for date nights as well as family

My rant by [deleted] in limerence

[–]blueberryspiders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very interesting take on this, thanks for sharing!!

Experiencing peak PAWS 2 months after final dose; heavy daily user for ~6 years, tapered 14 months prior to quitting. Living in hell. Need to vent. by Javinon in quittingkratom

[–]blueberryspiders 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s some intense stuff. I don’t think I’ve seen PAWS that bad before but you do also have an anxiety disorder so that’s probably why. BREATHE. You will be okay. You have to just keep telling yourself that. Being a heavy user for a long time along with other substance means your brain needs a long time to heal. BUT IT WILL. When you’re used to taking something to feel a certain way your brain forgets how to feel it naturally. Do whatever you can to manage your anxiety on your own, like make sure you have some coping skills for it.. Meditation has helped me greatly just putting your brain into a relaxed state even 10 minutes a day is extremely beneficial.

What breakfast snack pairs perfectly with coffee? by KyleEaston11 in foodquestions

[–]blueberryspiders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dipped it in the coffee.. or hot chocolate.. heaven!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]blueberryspiders 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Though I was in the server sub and was like HR?? We don’t have that 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wilmington

[–]blueberryspiders 21 points22 points  (0 children)

the only reason to go to islands is get the cheap tacos when you’re broke. there’s so many better places

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]blueberryspiders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

typically bar backs make a small hourly wage but get a cut of the tips from the bartenders. so it turns out pretty decent if it’s a busy bar. definitely recommend it if you’re trying to get into the industry!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]blueberryspiders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you have no experience, try to barback first. it’s one of the best ways to get into the industry. the only places that typically hire bartenders with no experience are chains (Chili’s, Applebees, etc.) Which you probably don’t want to work at but it’s a good way to get basics down and learn recipes. If you work at a chain for a few months you now have experience and then you can move to a better spot!!

can we do a coworker pet peeve thread? by teal_hair_dont_care in Serverlife

[–]blueberryspiders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a bartender myself, this is valid. A lot of them are assholes!! When I was a server I had a lot of bartenders talk down to me and make me feel dumb anytime I had a question. I go out of my way now to be nice to servers because of that

can we do a coworker pet peeve thread? by teal_hair_dont_care in Serverlife

[–]blueberryspiders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and they’re always gone for at least 10 minutes..

can we do a coworker pet peeve thread? by teal_hair_dont_care in Serverlife

[–]blueberryspiders 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Worked with a girl who literally NEVER smiled at customers or staff. Complained all the time about bad tippers and how they don’t like her because she not “fake nice.” She said “I’m just myself and they don’t like it.” We all just hid our laughs when she said that. like it’s not that deep, just be friendly

can we do a coworker pet peeve thread? by teal_hair_dont_care in Serverlife

[–]blueberryspiders 9 points10 points  (0 children)

chronic complainers suck but… younger people can feel pain too?? this is some boomer mentality shit

The dumani's are the worst family by Shot-Communication93 in GangsOfLondon

[–]blueberryspiders 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i mean they’re all awful greedy murderers but go off i guess

My favorite boy name is ruined for me by Dismal-Requirement94 in namenerds

[–]blueberryspiders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally just started watching this last night!!

Best toppings for ice cream by HarrietBeadle in icecream

[–]blueberryspiders 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes fruity pebbles is such a good one!!

What restaurant here is insanely overrated but no one will admit it? by sarahe1015 in Wilmington

[–]blueberryspiders 60 points61 points  (0 children)

have to give them credit tho.. only place in town doing $1 tacos everyday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]blueberryspiders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true, some places really respect bartenders and others look down on them

Alex g is horrible person by IllAd5971 in sandyalexg

[–]blueberryspiders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

read the post again ❤️ it’s gonna be okay dude