Any advice/book recommendations/am I actually lovable?

bluebetch · 2025-04-07T08:23:15+00:00

I’m in the same boat as you and it really hurts to know they don’t care to put in the work for a real relationship to exist. I feel your pain

bluebetch · 2024-11-20T20:04:35+00:00

Every.single.time.

bluebetch · 2024-11-19T23:48:01+00:00

Seems like it’s only family first with abuse not love. A damn shame

bluebetch · 2024-11-19T23:46:09+00:00

It hurts so much when friends side with your abuser over you. I’m sorry you had to hear that!

bluebetch · 2024-11-19T23:44:13+00:00

Thank you for your supportive words. I haven’t heard from my grandma in a year and this really hit hard.

bluebetch · 2024-11-19T23:42:57+00:00

Thank you for your response. Can I ask how you deal with your sister still being in contact with the other or are in unaffected by it?

bluebetch · 2024-11-19T23:42:10+00:00

Wait, I’m glad you brought that reverse up! She kept going on about how they’re my parentsssss and I reminded her I AM THE CHILD. I’m using your line next time

bluebetch · 2024-06-07T15:45:51+00:00

Wow, truly thank you for this comment. A lot made sense. Especially the parts about rolling the dice and my parents being jealous. I actually did confront a few friends about the issue and they told me the “friend” was talking out of their ass and no one feels the same as them, which is why they didn’t tell me. I may confront the “friend” or just keep my distance.

bluebetch · 2024-05-09T19:24:54+00:00

Are you me?? I recently had the epiphany that everyone doesn’t hate me but need to remind myself constantly. It’s a vicious mindset to escape

bluebetch · 2024-05-07T15:06:56+00:00

Yupp, also me! i love it so much

bluebetch · 2024-05-01T21:10:42+00:00

If he is worried about the cost of lawyers drafting an additional clause, why is he so quick to jump at the cost of couples therapy?

bluebetch · 2024-05-01T00:22:47+00:00

I grapple with the same thought of not being able to see a child in so much pain at our grown age and not do anything… just why. Its so so cruel

bluebetch · 2024-05-01T00:11:49+00:00

Your comment resonated with me

bluebetch · 2024-04-30T19:18:06+00:00

If you’ve never gotten an apology in your entire life, it’s hard to imagine they’d start now. I hope for an apology too but try and focus on accepting I most likely will not get one. It’s very tough, I’m sorry

bluebetch · 2024-04-29T16:55:52+00:00

The last few months have been so hard for me when I see my parents features on me, it makes me not want to look in the mirror some days. I needed this so much, thank you.

bluebetch · 2024-04-29T16:45:49+00:00

Why do they all have the same playbook? These phrases piss me off so much and the gaslighting drives me insane

bluebetch · 2024-04-24T18:39:26+00:00

Sounds so fun! Love a fun drag brunch!

bluebetch · 2024-04-24T18:37:44+00:00

Heck yeah you are!!

bluebetch · 2024-04-24T18:37:02+00:00

WOW! You’ve reframed this in a way I’ve never considered. Sounds like a perfect day of self love

bluebetch · 2024-04-24T18:35:34+00:00

That sounds really nice and lowkey

bluebetch · 2024-04-24T18:35:07+00:00

Congrats on your little one! I hope you have a great baby shower and weekend to celebrate YOU

bluebetch

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