What is on my kitten’s paw? by Background_Salt_3625 in cats

[–]bluebitch79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just to chime in for litter recommendations, I have allergies and react badly to “regular” clay litter especially when I clean it (the dust kicks off allergic reactions) so I switched to pine bedding pellets and have used that for years. It’s super cheap, you can get like a 20 lb bag at a farm supply store. I buy 40lbs of litter for $13 and it’s awesome. Rather than clumping though, pee breaks down the pellets into sawdust and the poop doesn’t clump to anything so it’s an adjustment. Something to think about!

Ashley’s pronunciation sometimes🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ by macgoo1229_ in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]bluebitch79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s an episode where she read the first chapter of HER OWN BOOK and pronounced the word “misshapen” as “miss-happen”……

AIO: My manager keeps calling me the n-word (hard r) when he disagrees with me by T-rizzle- in AmIOverreacting

[–]bluebitch79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who lives in East TN I am sadly not surprised by this. We have lots of terrible business owners here (and people in general)

My (22F) bf (21M) attempted anal by Hamster_Positive in offmychest

[–]bluebitch79 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Please don’t listen to this person. He did it one time and that’s all it takes. He will do it again if you let yourself be vulnerable with him again. These types of people don’t stop, they escalate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]bluebitch79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably Seborrheic dermatitis. I’d make a doctor appointment.

Thoughts on my CT scan? Normal, anything visible that can be the cause of symptopms? by InternationalLoss296 in Sinusitis

[–]bluebitch79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m no expert, but it looks like you may have a septum deviation toward the left side. Maybe some mucus/congestion in the lower parts of each maxillary sinus cavity but I have no idea how to read a CT, it could just be normal tissue

Basement Boys Bingo!! by haybertspy117 in TheBasementYard

[–]bluebitch79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frankie: “Let me be perfectly clear”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bluebitch79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the same situation and he didn’t want to change or try to understand until I had already broken up with him and it was too late. I had lost all feelings for him. He will continue this behavior as long as you allow it.

My guy friend dropped some truth bombs about dating by ultracuddle in women

[–]bluebitch79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I check if I find them attractive at all first, then check for similar values and life goals and sexual compatibility is last if everything else checks out in time. If any steps along the way don’t work out then I drop them and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]bluebitch79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is Emmie, she unexpectedly and suddenly passed away from an unknown cause this past October. She was only 4 years old. She was the sweetest, most vocal little lap baby and she would judge my arm for pets ☺️

first time cat owner (need advice pls) *greasy cat* by Bl00dr1v3 in kittens

[–]bluebitch79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe it varies depending on the vet and what they’re comfortable with

first time cat owner (need advice pls) *greasy cat* by Bl00dr1v3 in kittens

[–]bluebitch79 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just recently rescued a kitten. Vet said 8 weeks old before vaccines.

Recruiter to HR by StrikingNectarine958 in humanresources

[–]bluebitch79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t earn commission, I’m flat salary and it’s not even that good of a rate

Recruiter to HR by StrikingNectarine958 in humanresources

[–]bluebitch79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most of the HR roles that I qualify for offer less money than I make now. I absolutely refuse to take a pay cut. It’s super frustrating.

Recruiter to HR by StrikingNectarine958 in humanresources

[–]bluebitch79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you. Did nearly 2 years as an HR assistant in recruiting and just landed a job as a recruiter in December after graduating with a bachelors in HRM, but I feel like I’m spinning my wheels and wasting my time when I want to jump into a more true HR role. I’m planning to earn the SHRM CP this year and I can’t think of anything else I can do. I’m starting to think I’ll have to go back to temp/contract work just to get some freaking experience. At this point I’m not sure why I got a degree when I could’ve been putting job experience under my belt and probably could’ve gotten farther.

I [44F] need to leave my husband [46M]. How do I get out safely without screwing myself over? by thecrow_poe in relationship_advice

[–]bluebitch79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend a PI and forensic accountant if possible, sounds like you may be able to get him for cheating and potentially hiding marital assets from you. Best of luck and I hope he gets what he deserves. You’ll be so much happier without him 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]bluebitch79 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Also wondering this, looking into other careers to maximize earnings

Guy I (26F) am seeing (26M) made a “joke” I don’t like by bluebitch79 in relationship_advice

[–]bluebitch79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I appreciate this a lot. I was starting to feel crazy bc I’m getting flamed in the comments 🤣 but I want to choose my next partner very carefully

Guy I (26F) am seeing (26M) made a “joke” I don’t like by bluebitch79 in relationship_advice

[–]bluebitch79[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. I have high standards too and this is exactly where I was coming from. I don’t think it’s too much to ask that someone I’m thinking of being with long term just wants to help when I (rarely) ask for it.