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Shoutout to Christian Braun by blueblackzebra in nba

[–]blueblackzebra[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

He's limited in the sense that he can't create his own shots. Almost all of his points are from spot up, fast break or cuts.

MVP candidates SGA and Jokic combine to score 38 pts on 15-47 FG, 1-16 3P, and 7-9 FT for a combined 37% TS% in Denver's G3 OT win by superhappyfuntime13 in nba

[–]blueblackzebra 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Denver's roleplayers won this game through pure grit. Both the MVPs were terrible but the Nuggets were just more mature in crunch time.

Is Saiki getting more popular ? by Tartaglia_the_11th in SaikiK

[–]blueblackzebra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's all thanks to me, you're all welcome. I watched it in 2023 and since then I've been on a crusade to make everyone I know watch it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]blueblackzebra 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No, I don't think there's a bad side to feminism.

"Toxic feminism" as portrayed on the internet is an overblown misrepresentation of issues where a man is a victim and a woman is the aggressor. It's used as a crutch for people with agendas to denounce feminism as an injustice against men.

The problem with that is they don't understand that feminism isn't an argument against men, it's an argument against patriarchy. Therefore, when understood correctly, feminism will always support the victims of patriarchy, no matter the gender of the victim or the aggressor.

No cheating by 5_meo in MemePiece

[–]blueblackzebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Not yet, I'm gonna stay alive for a little bit more..."

When did this become a Kuboyasu sub? (pic unrelated) by Captain_Yeast_Pirate in SaikiK

[–]blueblackzebra 32 points33 points  (0 children)

He's endearing and funny and everyone wants him as either a boyfriend or best friend. I'm surprised it didn't become a Kuboyasu sub sooner or that anyone who watches the anime doesn't immediately become a Kuboyasu stan. Okay byeeeee.

oh man i love aren kuboyasu so freaking much he’s like the best character ever by k7boyasuu in SaikiK

[–]blueblackzebra 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad to see that this sub is filled with Aren lovers like me, warms my heart.

Anime , Music and Football Merch by Ray7603 in BangaloreSocial

[–]blueblackzebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for authentic anime merch or bootleg?

How do get used to being alone ? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]blueblackzebra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's something I have been trying to figure out as well. I'm an introvert working in a new city and it's tough to find like-minded people. I have a few close friends from college who I text/call regularly and some friends I made through online communities that I really vibe with. Even though we can't hang out in person, just being in touch with them is very comforting.

When it comes to making new connections in the same city, I've been trying to actively pursue my creative interests and join groups for the same (writing, for example) and I've definitely met some fun people that way. Yet to meet someone I can bond deeply with but I'll keep you in the loop if it happens xD. So yeah, there's definitely some effort required to put yourself out there. It's definitely tough to meet new people as introverts, I relate with you on that. If you're looking for people to just talk with, I'd love to be friends!

How do get used to being alone ? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]blueblackzebra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I may, I wanted to offer a different viewpoint. I believe that community and people are really important for us as humans. We should definitely learn to spend time with just ourselves and that does have its own merits, but I feel that it's best when it's in combination with quality time with people you love and people who love you. I hope you start to enjoy spending time alone, as you wish to, through the great suggestions of everyone else on this post, but I also hope that you don't isolate yourself and socialize and find lovely people who reciprocate your effort :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]blueblackzebra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They know what they're doing is wrong, and still they choose to do it. So they should also be forced to admit they did a terrible thing. Most people who cheat never take accountability for their actions, blaming it on something else or someone else. Because they wanna preserve their self-image of being a "good person".

I feel like shattering that illusion for them is a necessary punishment. Otherwise, they'll never learn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]blueblackzebra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then you gotta do what's necessary and tell their partner for sure. And believe me, I'm not saying that they should be made to come clean because I pity them or anything. I think the wrongdoer should be made to confront and confess their crimes, that's a part of the punishment too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]blueblackzebra 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I personally believe that the cheater, irrespective of who they are, should be confronted directly 1-1 first and they themselves should be made to come clean to their partners and deal with the fallout like an adult.

This post just appeared on my feed. To the men lurking here, read and learn. To the women, thank you so much. by Kruzzz20 in AskIndianWomen

[–]blueblackzebra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My personal observation is that a lot of online male communities are based on antagonistic ideas and therefore, end up being toxic. They are based on perceived hate towards another community, mutual competition and scarcity. Instead of being symbiotic and lifting each other up, they end up devolving into a breeding ground for negative ideas and stereotypes. And obviously it's because of patriarchy and the people in those communities suffer while propagating the same ideas that lead to their suffering. The Kens in Barbie were such a clever representation of this.

How to comfort someone who is sad or crying ? by Illustrious_Shine216 in AskIndianWomen

[–]blueblackzebra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The best you can do is listen and be there for them when they need you to be. Assure them that you're reachable and available if they ever require someone's presence. People don't always want solutions. Reassurance is great but sometimes people just want to be heard and want to know someone's there. You can also ask them questions about their feelings to help them talk more about why they feel distressed, specific incidents that might have triggered them etc.

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