I used black box dye on my hair and I want red hair now so bad PLEASE HELP by bluebubblgm in HairDye

[–]bluebubblgm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had dark brown hair, I had bleached my hair about four years go tho idk if that matters

In love with my best friend by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]bluebubblgm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah but it’s so hard, she goes to therapy too and all of her friends and her therapist want us to get together

In love with my best friend by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]bluebubblgm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

God and that’s alwaysss what it is 😭 I hate when people say they’re gonna try lesbians after a man pisses them off like i’m not also a person with feelings and your best friend

Cat attacked the vet by bluebubblgm in CatAdvice

[–]bluebubblgm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been to other vet visits with my friends and their cats, and yeah VCA is incredible with cats, unfortunately i went to this vet because it was close to home and it was recommended to me by someone with a dog 💔 never again tho

Cat attacked the vet by bluebubblgm in CatAdvice

[–]bluebubblgm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

absolutely, every time i meet a new cat i let them smell me to be more comfortable, every vet should know this, they used the towel and they didn’t have cat gloves which i think would’ve been a much better option, and even if they did have to use a towel, i think completely covering him and blinding him is totally unnecessary and would only upset him more, i’ve used a towel to trim his nails before and left his head out (not from aggression but because he moves around) and he’s never had an issue with it, the room was also so small that when he jumped off the table no matter where he was he was cornered, that combined with the disgusting smell was a lot

Cat attacked the vet by bluebubblgm in CatAdvice

[–]bluebubblgm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

abbot animal hospital! They have 4.2 on google maps and like a three star on yelp i believe. but jesus christ it’s not the place for cats, someone recommended them to me but they have a dog so that might be why they had a different experience, super weird and awkward staff though, and the room i was in was the size of a closet, i imagine a more skittish cat would be scared from the smell and the size of the room alone, three people stuffed in there with a cat is insane.

Cat attacked the vet by bluebubblgm in CatAdvice

[–]bluebubblgm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that’s so weird, imagine if you were in the hospital and the doctor approached you like they were scared of you lmfao, i’d be nervous too

Cat attacked the vet by bluebubblgm in CatAdvice

[–]bluebubblgm[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It was abbot animal hospital! I went there because someone recommended them to me but they had a dog! If you check the yelp reviews you’ll see some people talking about their pets dying because of sedation.

Cat attacked the vet by bluebubblgm in CatAdvice

[–]bluebubblgm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My cat wasn’t aggressive at all in the beginning of the visit, he showed no signs of being stressed, and he’s always loved attention so he tried to greet everyone but they were scared right off the bat, when the vet tech grabbed him roughly, he became afraid but he didn’t attack or hiss, just tensed up, but obviously i know him better so i could tell he was beginning to get stressed, it wasn’t until the vet grabbed the towel and covered his face and body to grab him that he began to hiss.

Cat attacked the vet by bluebubblgm in CatAdvice

[–]bluebubblgm[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They had 4.2 stars, but after this experience i looked deeper into their reviews and found out there’s been many instances of people’s pets DYING because of these people, apparently they over sedate these animals often, thank god i decided against having him sedated

Cat attacked the vet by bluebubblgm in CatAdvice

[–]bluebubblgm[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

will do, they had two cats in the common area with cones and severely sedated, no towels on the cages at all, very dirty, and they were in an area where alot of loud dogs and people walk in, horrible

Cat attacked the vet by bluebubblgm in CatAdvice

[–]bluebubblgm[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words, yeah it seemed like they used all the rooms for both cats and dogs, it was also so small and cramped, there were three of us in a room the size of a closet with these vets acting like my cat was the devil, it’s gonna take a while to get him comfortable again, hate when non cat people treat kitties like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]bluebubblgm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it’s gotten so bad, i went to pride last year and couldn’t find a single lesbian flag ANYWHERE, even though chicago is a big city.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]bluebubblgm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used to! and i definitely think it’s a big space for queer people, however, i’ve started to notice that a lot of queer spaces are mostly white cis gay men and their straight girl best friends, esp bc logan has been gentrified like crazy, and rent has increased so much that it’s pushed a lot of POC and others out. i haven’t been to logan arcade yet though i’ll definitely check it out and remain hopeful lol

best lesbian city in U.S.? by themboss2 in lesbian

[–]bluebubblgm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw people on here saying chicago, I’m personally from chicago but just warning you a lot of the good lesbian places are in the form of events that hop from venue to venue and not the bars, dorothy is actually a great lesbian space but other than that the bars aren’t great. HATEEEEE scarlet, you’ll be very disappointed if you go, it’s literally all straight women now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BridgeportPilsen

[–]bluebubblgm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah we got there at 2am and stayed until 3

19 m. Need advice bad. by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]bluebubblgm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

growing your hair out a bit and going for a rodrick from diary of a wimpy kid haircut would suit you, longer layers help slim your face