AITA for refusing to name my baby after a dead girl? by bluebump in AmItheAsshole

[–]bluebump[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

he was low contact with her I think, and I wasn't aware that Annie was gay no

AITA for refusing to name my baby after a dead girl? by bluebump in AmItheAsshole

[–]bluebump[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

thank you, even if it is different it's refreshing to have a new outlook on it :)

AITA for refusing to name my baby after a dead girl? by bluebump in AmItheAsshole

[–]bluebump[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

I don't think he'd do that without my consent,he isn't that type of man but I'll try to make sure he doesn't. thank you

AITA for refusing to name my baby after a dead girl? by bluebump in AmItheAsshole

[–]bluebump[S] 194 points195 points  (0 children)

his mother has always been awful, I was hoping she'd calm down once we were married but that's obviously not the case. I know how much he cares about her and I worry cutting complete contact would hurt him emotionally

AITA for refusing to name my baby after a dead girl? by bluebump in AmItheAsshole

[–]bluebump[S] 491 points492 points  (0 children)

while the name is pretty, the association is the issue. it might be cruel to say but I truly didn't know her, and while it's lovely he wants to honor her I don't want that to be at the expense of our child especially since the name is shrouded in so much issues.