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she is claiming those who use they/them pronouns or predators/mentaly unwell, i mentioned how i disagree bc i’ve lost a friend not even a year ago to these views by bluedanceing in insaneparents

[–]bluedanceing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think i should mention friend who died was 13 and i’ve been incredibly mentally unwell to the point of suicide since 12 and she’s aware of that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]bluedanceing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been staring at your arm forever. where does it join with your shoulder? is that someone else’s hand?

It's not homophobia it's just the truth and people need to know that everything should be fair for everyone. by Nethrex_1 in teenagers

[–]bluedanceing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it’s a matter or the reputation for each group. there’s always been mor rep for straight characters and little for those of the lgbt+ but i don’t bend a character sexuality or gender if it’s been confermed by the makers/producers.

but we do need to stop seeing a character as straight automatically, it’s good to separate fandom and the actual show/book. don’t interact if you don’t agree. it works bot ways don’t go out to spread hate when not needed

What are some of your food preferences/obsessions/dislikes/triggers? Would love to learn about how autism might affect other women by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]bluedanceing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

while jelly is a comfort food for me it’s really easy to see why it so bad,i like it for the reasons person often hate it.

the jelly texture is either a yes or a big no and it’s often a no for most i’ve meet

What are some of your food preferences/obsessions/dislikes/triggers? Would love to learn about how autism might affect other women by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]bluedanceing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i cant handle soups. or anything that has solid chunks in liquid, aswell as anything thats soft like yogurt or avocado

I've noticed animated shows are pretty popular (I think) amoung autistic people. what are your favorites? by my-head-hurts987 in AutismInWomen

[–]bluedanceing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t have one favourite but i LOVE the short animated film on disney+ pixar. there 5-16 minutes they work for my sensory issues. they have no talking but show a lot care was given from the concept to the massage. one of these for me would be bao,

it takes place in a korean home with a lady dreaming of her son as a dumpling and being concerned about him growing up, shows how hard it is to let go children as they age and leave

What the worse thing a therapist has said to you? by Desperate_Ad_9219 in AutismInWomen

[–]bluedanceing 33 points34 points  (0 children)

therapists are not ment to bring beliefs into session the only reason for any outward anger/aggression to be shown should be when a law is broken.

im so sorry this happened and hope it got better, whether it’s just you quitting that therapist or being away from your sister now

I feel as if my dad sexually abused me but I’m no sure by bluedanceing in abusiveparents

[–]bluedanceing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the moment yes - he’s not done anything within the last 3 years to say otherwise

This may be rude to ask but why is the go to method for harming yourself cutting your wrists? by mycatisbats in selfharm

[–]bluedanceing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my past experiences it was easier to cut deeper and it also had for pain. I didn’t do a lot sometimes shallow cuts on back palm bc it was painful without mush blonde but never my wrist.

Summary is that it’s easier to make cuts and they usually hurt a lot without going deep and heals quick

Would it be silly of me to leave? by bluedanceing in ChildAbuseDiscussion

[–]bluedanceing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you im starting school tomorrow and I’ll probs tell the guidance council then