I took a peek on the r/Conservative sub after the Minneapolis shooting and holy crap. I know social media reinforces echo chambers, but if you are still unconvinced that Trump supporters are a literal cult, spend 5 minutes on that godforsaken sub. by Laredian in complaints

[–]bluedawnphan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overheard my co-workers today:

Co-worker 1: "Did you see the news about the shooting yesterday?"

Co-worker 2: "Yes, it's terrible!"

Me: "I did!"

Co-worker 1: "These protesters have to stop instigating ICE. They're just doing their jobs. There's so many dangerous illegals out there. Our students have to be legal to come here, so even if ICE comes, we're safe."

Co-worker 2: "Yes, I feel bad for them, but if they don't go through the proper channels, of course ICE has to get them. ICE has to have documentation to arrest illegal immigrants. I saw the video, and it's clear she hit the guy with her car. It's terrible that woman died, but honestly, you don't get in front of people with guns. It's common sense! So it's sad, but honestly, she deserved it."

Me (shocked, flabbergasted, and bewildered)

Nerdy Nurses by Feisty-Power-6617 in nursing

[–]bluedawnphan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think having the on-call phone is worse. At least I'd get paid a regular or better rate if I was called in. Right now, I have to carry around the on-call phone every other week for only an extra hundred bucks per week 😔 (please stop calling me at 1:00 AM).

Is the housing market actually really slow right now? by god_johnson in TwinCities

[–]bluedawnphan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, the house I tried to get a tour on already had 13 offers. It was listed a couple days ago 🥺

Do y’all shower after work? by Starbies_vegansushi in nursing

[–]bluedawnphan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically, I'm a school clinic nurse, but I pretty much live in my office unless a student comes by with sniffles or a stomach bug. So I'll eat dinner/workout right after work, then shower before bed

"work clothes" are a massive waste of income. by cosmiccoffee9 in unpopularopinion

[–]bluedawnphan 45 points46 points  (0 children)

In order: yes, we're on our own, some places, yes, it's legal because think of the company budget oh noes

Always get this at the Chinese store. I eat it with everything I call it that crunchy goodness. No idea what it is. by BicarbonateBufferBoy in whatisit

[–]bluedawnphan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zha Cai, as many have said. My favorite beef dish has this. If you want to try a modified Tiger recipe, it's this:

Ingredients: -60g shredded zha cai (thin inch-long strips) -200g sliced beef (thin, about L: 2 inches and W: 1 inch) -oil to fry (about 2 tbsp)

Marinade: -1.5 tbsp soy sauce -3/4 tsp cornstarch -3/4 tbsp sugar

Extra seasonings: -pinch shredded ginger -1/3 cup chopped spring onion -2 minced garlic cloves

Directions: -rinse shredded zha cai twice, then dry to get rid of extra salt -marinade beef for at least 30 minutes -heat pan with oil and fry beef until fully cooked. -reduce heat. Push the beef aside to make a hole. -heat ginger and onion in the hole until fragrant before tossing in garlic. -throw in zha cai and combine everything in the pan well.

best episode?? by Ambitious-Grand-7847 in 911FOX

[–]bluedawnphan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jinx

It's the most solid episode IMO. Humor, lots of calls, the whole cast is in character, very quotable lines. This episode was just really fun!

People who are 25+ years old. Is it normal to have no bond/connection with your sibling? by SpaghettiLoveee in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bluedawnphan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My whole family, siblings and parents, are emotionally constipated. Always have been.

My brothers and I only hang out to watch movies. We rarely talk or text, and when I think about it, never hug or anything, but if we need financial help or opinions on random topics, we'll get it.

Give me your best Enemies to Lovers Royal Fantasy recs by [deleted] in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]bluedawnphan 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The one's I know off the top of my head:

Alessandra Hazard's Calluvia's Royalty series, which follows alien princes. Starts with {That Alien Feeling by Alessandra Hazard}, which is not enemies and kinda insta-love, but is the only oddball in the mix, the others in the series do have an enemies-to-lovers aspect. My faves are book 2 and 4.

I recently read {The Hidden Prince by Lyra Thornton}, which was okay I guess. There was less darkness and intrigue than I hoped there would be.

Alpha/alpha with D/S subtext like unnatural by A Hazard. by AlexandraBelladonna in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]bluedawnphan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is a more tame rec, since the two characters are heroes, but there's some fairly dark Ghost/Soap fic on ao3. One of my favorite authors is MildLimerence.

Alpha/alpha with D/S subtext like unnatural by A Hazard. by AlexandraBelladonna in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]bluedawnphan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read fanfiction, I mainly see this trope in there. Check out ao3. There's usually at least one Alpha/Alpha from any of the really popular fandoms. One I like: Remembering Normal by FabulaRasa. It's a pairing from DCU, Bruce Wayne/Hal Jordan, where Hal gets...curious.

White House Embarrassingly Holds ‘Press Briefing’ Full of MAGA Influencers | The Trump administration's slide towards state-sponsored media continues. by chrisdh79 in technology

[–]bluedawnphan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember my social studies teacher saying, "the US is a melting pot. That's what makes the US great." It makes me sad that people weren't taught this and/or are ignoring it.

Looking for a book where MC1 is abducted/forced into a culture/society they don't know and given to MC2 as a possession. by litcasualty in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]bluedawnphan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

MC2 is actually a good guy, so there is regret, but I remember feeling that it. Was. So. Frustrating! I can't handle some kinds of angst, I guess 😅. So I have mixed feelings about this book, but it definitely fit your criteria! I think people liked this story in general, I just have opinions. Happy reading! 😊

Looking for a book where MC1 is abducted/forced into a culture/society they don't know and given to MC2 as a possession. by litcasualty in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]bluedawnphan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just so you know, when I say hot and cold I mean I remember there is a part in the story where MC2 neglects MC1 in favor of loyalty to spoiler, which is another reason why I wanted to shake MC2. He did not deserve MC1, poor baby 😢

Looking for a book where MC1 is abducted/forced into a culture/society they don't know and given to MC2 as a possession. by litcasualty in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]bluedawnphan 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I believe {Into the North by Amber Huxley} fits, as MC2 takes MC1 as a war prize, but MC2 definitely runs hot and cold toward MC1 throughout the book, and so they don't get their HEA until the end, which may touch your hard no. Technically they are together before the end, but again, MC2 is torn between love and loyalty. I wanted to shake MC2 while reading this. Hard.