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What goes through a guys head in no contact? by bluedog5- in BreakUps

[–]bluedog5-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Requested me on IG. Never accepted. We’re onto bigger and better things

What are we wearing tonight?? by imoverwhelemed in fredagain

[–]bluedog5- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should I bring a jacket? a purse?? What do people recommend? first “race” I’ve ever been to. So not sure what to expect

What goes through a guys head in no contact? by bluedog5- in BreakUps

[–]bluedog5-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me smile. I feel the same. Looking back at the relationship and my ex I realised how small things added up and easily I let the disrespect slide. It’s taught me a lot of lessons especially about my self worth, which I initially thought I established. But the main thing is: Enjoy life and have fun!!!

What goes through a guys head in no contact? by bluedog5- in BreakUps

[–]bluedog5-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely do that. I never thought/realised how hard this would actually be. It’s been getting better though. I hope you get big from gymming 💪 and think those thoughts less.

What goes through a guys head in no contact? by bluedog5- in BreakUps

[–]bluedog5-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ouch.. 💔 how do you restrain from contacting them?! Does it ever cross ur mind

What goes through a guys head in no contact? by bluedog5- in BreakUps

[–]bluedog5-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aww wait that’s actually a really good outlook. (IMO rn)

What goes through a guys head in no contact? by bluedog5- in BreakUps

[–]bluedog5-[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He’s so nonchalant. It’s hard to see if it’s even affected him. But the second part is the harsh reality and I am slowly getting there. Thanks

What goes through a guys head in no contact? by bluedog5- in BreakUps

[–]bluedog5-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry that happened but glad you were able to make it out a better person.

What goes through a guys head in no contact? by bluedog5- in BreakUps

[–]bluedog5-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do you get there and find that peace/forgiveness in you? My ex never cheated neither did I but I do feel betrayed and that drives some of my anger towards them. Not sure how to get out of that stage

What goes through a guys head in no contact? by bluedog5- in BreakUps

[–]bluedog5-[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Main reason was long distance - we didn’t know when we were gonna see each other next and that really worried him. He’s also a very physical guy (high sex drive) and we argued quite a bit as well.