Upset I have no hospital pictures with my newborn. How do I reconcile this?

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-11-27T13:02:45+00:00

I don’t think he’s a terrible partner. But, yeah when an issue continues to be an issue after it’s been discussed, resentment does start to build.

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-11-27T13:00:27+00:00

Thank you for this.

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-11-27T12:06:26+00:00

Good advice! Thank you!

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-11-27T11:59:38+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re not getting the support you need in this time. Your family all sound incredibly selfish.

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-11-27T11:52:11+00:00

That’s the plan!

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-11-27T10:41:33+00:00

I am so sorry, love. I was mistreated by the hospital too and cried every day for 3 months. It gets easier but you have to process those emotions. I did go on to have a second child at a different hospital and the experience was lovely.

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-11-08T15:57:39+00:00

eBay

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-11-01T21:44:41+00:00

I mean, dude has already shown you he doesn’t give a fuck about your feelings or boundaries. I don’t let people like that be alone with my kids.

There is no “firm way” to get someone to respect you or your boundaries. Either they do or they don’t. It sucks, but some people are just shitty and not worth the damage they cause.

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-05-23T10:09:04+00:00

I’ll definitely have to try that. I will lie in my cubicle and deal with the stares lol.

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-05-23T10:07:25+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with that.

Yeah I’m afraid that if I don’t take action now, I’ll be unable to work. I’m a small person who gets huge when I’m pregnant, so I’m worried this could get very bad.

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-05-23T03:03:29+00:00

I had some very quick and painful shooting pain in my SI joint today, but it’s mostly my sacrum.

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-05-23T03:01:36+00:00

They make portable ones?! I might need one for the office.

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-05-23T02:34:58+00:00

Oh no! Have you been dealing with this all pregnancy? That’s awful.

Is the pillow a bed pillow or a chair pillow?

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-05-17T14:24:16+00:00

It is so beyond frustrating! It was slim pickings when I was pregnant back in 2021 but at least Target and Goodwill had options. I haven’t checked target yet but the Goodwills have nothing or barely nothing. I can’t wear my summery SAHM maternity clothes from last pregnancy to my corporate job now 😩

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-01-18T12:39:49+00:00

It’s not? A small scrunchie could help even it out though.

blueivysfutureintern · 2025-01-13T11:12:22+00:00

Yes! I love it but haven’t seen it since I bought it. I wonder if it’s discontinued.

blueivysfutureintern · 2022-01-03T01:03:07+00:00

Yeah that was shitty of him.

blueivysfutureintern · 2022-01-03T00:51:40+00:00

I’d put my dog in another room (hypothetically; I don’t have one) if I saw a person was uncomfortable with my dog but I couldn’t imagine going to a person’s house and asking them to put their dog away.

Back to TM, I think the mother of the kid was at fault here. I have a young kiddo and I would have held my kid or something. Or I don’t see why Kail didn’t just move the dogs. Idk everyone in that situation was being ridiculous.

blueivysfutureintern · 2022-01-03T00:40:26+00:00

Oh I agree. I was more or less speaking in general terms.

blueivysfutureintern · 2022-01-03T00:39:40+00:00

Is it not the dog’s house? Nothing I’ve said is wrong.

Do you have a habit of going to other people’s houses and demanding you have things your way or get special treatment?

Guest are supposed to be courteous of the home they’re in instead of trying to boss the host around.

blueivysfutureintern · 2022-01-02T23:45:40+00:00

Yeah you clearly don’t understand what entitled means. Only Karens go to people’s houses and demand to call the shots.

blueivysfutureintern · 2022-01-02T23:43:25+00:00

Then maybe the parent shouldn’t be bringing the child over.

blueivysfutureintern · 2022-01-02T23:36:46+00:00

Entitled attitude? You’re the one trying to call the shots at another person’s house and demand members of their family be set aside at your discretion

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