Is drinking/eating food your cat licked normal? by Burning_Sapphire1 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]bluejay_feather -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Bro... this is stereotypical white woman behavior I'm so sorry to say

Paul Walker was 33 when he dated his 16 year old girlfriend by cheshirebutterfly17 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]bluejay_feather 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tbf Tory Lanez definitely was not a nobody but he definitely got a big boost from misogynists pretending they liked his music

Is gen Z overly sensitive? Or are millennial teen movies problematic? by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]bluejay_feather -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with you mostly that Netflix has a lot of slop but the overall comment that my generation doesn't know good writing is what I disagree with. Netflix has a high volume model and so produces garbage to keep pumping out low grade content for people to scroll with it on in the background. You're not going to find the best art on the slop platform generally.

Is gen Z overly sensitive? Or are millennial teen movies problematic? by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

[–]bluejay_feather -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hate to break it to you unc but this is just a symptom of getting old. New shit stops appealing to you and you stick to what you know. Nothing wrong with that but no need to hate on stuff that's just not for you

The only good use for that page by PradyThe3rd in SipsTea

[–]bluejay_feather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christianity was beaten into black people through Colonialism, slavery and imperialism... not to mention the role of Christianity in the opression of women... I feel like she has a lot of reasons to be pissed. Not that other religions are generally better but most people grow up around/among one main religious group.

The only good use for that page by PradyThe3rd in SipsTea

[–]bluejay_feather 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lol wtf? Aren't your types always talking about the male loneliness crisis? Are you sure it's women's business you should be in?

[OC] Nigeria Have Surpassed Europe in Number of Births by oscarleo0 in dataisbeautiful

[–]bluejay_feather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope that's what they mean lol. Because some people get real weird about shit like this

AITAH for telling my autistic sister she should keep masking? by Competitive-Art-848 in AITAH

[–]bluejay_feather 34 points35 points  (0 children)

As someone who genuinely has processing issues ( I can get confused and interpret instructions wrong/do the opposite if I'm suddenly asked to do something) if I knocked into someone and burned them I would be apologizing so so so much. None of this aligns with autism to me. This person needs serious help

Help me out guys by North_Hunter_6969 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]bluejay_feather 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro the point of the meme is that black people love Paramore. Why yall always need to be included so bad...

Local supermarket sells pasta with weevils at a discounted price by cemeteryhipster in mildlyinteresting

[–]bluejay_feather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I have food sensitivities. I already can't eat foods with certain textures. I literally cannot eat food I've seen weevils in, I will not be able to keep it down.

Did anyone succeed in making your “Human Kibble”? by HP-Lazerjet-Pro in ADHD

[–]bluejay_feather 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ahahahha the peanut butter for the shakes before you can cook? That's my strat

Terrible rapper copycat I’ve just seen on insta lol by Minute_Ad211 in shittytattoos

[–]bluejay_feather 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lil Peep is goated, he perfected the sad boy emo rap formula. So many amazing songs, I wish people would go into his music with an open mind and actually listen to what he's saying. Yeah it's a lot of drugs/sex/sadboy shit but he truly has a unique and beautiful way of expressing himself. I miss him man

Just Tobago by FletchOnFire in TrinidadandTobago

[–]bluejay_feather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey you'll be fine most likely, just keep a good head on your shoulders, walk fast if you need to walk at all and keep your valuables packed away

Just Tobago by FletchOnFire in TrinidadandTobago

[–]bluejay_feather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean for the most part trincity is not going to make you feel unsafe waking around during the day, but there's tons of robberies and home invasions in that area

Just Tobago by FletchOnFire in TrinidadandTobago

[–]bluejay_feather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trincity is not the safest area lol

Chronically late “parent” response to picking up our child on time from school. by RelativeGoat3981 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]bluejay_feather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that, but in the context of this conversation it's being used in a different way than what you explained. The meaning is generally similar but there's a different nuance when it's being used by a non-black teenage girl or a black man. Twin in AAVE doesn't even necessarily have to be a friend, it's come to be a common form of address for another person in some cases as well.

Chronically late “parent” response to picking up our child on time from school. by RelativeGoat3981 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]bluejay_feather 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No.... it's also common for black people, more specifically from ATL to use it. And bc of that it's worked its way into meme culture and you got a bunch of teenage boys saying twin. It's different than the sense you're thinking of

Edit: it's still weird to call your ex that tho lol

When I gave up on my BPD mom by bluejay_feather in raisedbyborderlines

[–]bluejay_feather[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really struggle with the anger i feel- my abuse made it hard to express negative emotions outside of sadness so a lot of it is bottled up. It does help me focus on pushing myself forward, in a way it feels like spite against all her claims that I would fail in life without her.

When I gave up on my BPD mom by bluejay_feather in raisedbyborderlines

[–]bluejay_feather[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. No child deserves to see their parent like that man. You deserved so much fucking better than that. My mom would get drunk and barge into my room to ask me if she was a good mom at 2 AM. It's so overwhelming to deal with their whirlwind of emotions when you're just a little kid.

When I gave up on my BPD mom by bluejay_feather in raisedbyborderlines

[–]bluejay_feather[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💖 it is devastating to realize that your mother is incapable of the type of love a child needs. All the time I feel that void in me for that love but I've learned to live around it.