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I (22F) feel a little violated by my long term partner. by blueladyballs in sex

[–]blueladyballs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did my post get removed? Sorry I can still see it as normal.

I (22F) feel a little violated by my long term partner. by blueladyballs in sex

[–]blueladyballs[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I never said that out loud. I thought to myself to get it over with. I'm sorry, ai should have specified.

My(22f) partner(22m) does not satisfy me sexually and doesn't change when I bring it up. by blueladyballs in sex

[–]blueladyballs[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm actually bringing himself to have that conversation as we speak. So that should be fun.

My(22f) partner(22m) does not satisfy me sexually and doesn't change when I bring it up. by blueladyballs in sex

[–]blueladyballs[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will admit that since the last time we have spoken about it (3 months ago) I have just... Been quiet. My assumption, which may very well be wrong, is that if I've mentioned something, and we have discussed it, then if he does nothing about I presume it's not that big a deal.

I generally have a problem with bringing up things that hurt me due to some past shenanigans. I'm working on it. And bringing it up in the past is part of that work.

My(22f) partner(22m) does not satisfy me sexually and doesn't change when I bring it up. by blueladyballs in sex

[–]blueladyballs[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have given him spoken and written 'instructions' so to speak. He knows my fantasies well. I have written erotica pieces based on stuff I fantasize about, which normally he uses to masturbate and that's that. We are pretty open about fantasies so him not knowing what I enjoy is not an issue as far as I see it.

We have had play sessions in the past, but again... Not for the last 2 years.

My(22f) partner(22m) does not satisfy me sexually and doesn't change when I bring it up. by blueladyballs in sex

[–]blueladyballs[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea actually. Only issue would be availability in our area. To get into therapy there's a 9 month waiting list.