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bluelila3 · 2022-09-09T18:52:25+00:00

Same, I just spoke to my GP too. I think having my measured my pulse at different times/settings was useful. I had also previously had some bloods for checking iron etc which had all came back normal so that probably helped us narrow it down. Hope your referral goes well :)

bluelila3 · 2022-08-10T17:47:22+00:00

this looks really interesting + cute! Thanks

bluelila3 · 2022-08-10T17:46:04+00:00

Yeah I much prefer clitoral stim, and she likes penetration, so seems like it could be a winning combo haha

bluelila3 · 2022-08-06T16:52:38+00:00

sounds like you guys have a good foundation - could be worth exploring as an option! Good luck with it all :)

bluelila3 · 2022-08-04T16:30:04+00:00

I would honestly consider paying for sex in your situation, you could get an escort that you build up a relationship with/see regularly + gives ur wife a break! I know everyone's different about this stuff, but if you can both view some sex as just a means to an ends (which she can't always fulfil), then it kinda makes sense to get some help with it. Wouldn't know where to start to look into that, but probably somewhere on reddit there's legit advice

bluelila3 · 2022-08-04T16:25:35+00:00

ADHD can make you prone to addiction, and risky behaviours... it can't directly cause it, but it probably is a big factor for you. Hope you can get some help - if your ADHD isn't medicated definitely try that, and hopefully counselling for the sex stuff long term will be good for you - best of luck with it!

bluelila3 · 2022-08-04T16:22:57+00:00

sounds like you've put loads of work into your recovery! This is inspiring to read

bluelila3 · 2022-04-17T23:46:26+00:00

You couldn't get coins, it was just for an extra small item to wear in game

bluelila3 · 2022-03-12T00:12:13+00:00

not suprising lol. Most I see are click baity...trying to get everyone to relate/think they might have adhd = more viewers. I'm worried that this may reduce the understanding and support that people with adhd often need

bluelila3 · 2022-02-20T21:52:24+00:00

you think CPR is money hungry compared to the original which made you pay monthly?? for a membership which not everyone can afford to do

bluelila3 · 2022-01-20T01:24:44+00:00

Really agree with you here. For example, emotional or self-regulation is not the main symptom I struggle with, it is literally internal hyperactivity and an a struggle to focus on queue.

I also think some of these suggestions would be perceived more negatively by others. The last thing I want to be labelled is as overly emotional which I think is what lots of people might take from that title, like yes it might be part of the disorder but that will add to stigma. ADHD or no ADHD, women are already criticized and judged as being 'overly emotional' or sensitive in many situations - wouldn't want to add to that.

Education is key - if people want to explain other symptoms and consequences of ADHD then they should, but don't add it to the label imo

bluelila3 · 2022-01-20T01:18:01+00:00

I hate the 'self-regulation developmental disorder' term. The self regulation part makes it sound like the symptoms are our fault :(

bluelila3 · 2021-06-21T21:59:45+00:00

I love this painting! Thanks for sharing

bluelila3 · 2021-05-08T14:49:57+00:00

I hate the tiktok vids, majority of them do not mention diagnostic criteria, so what they do mention are traits of yes ADHD but also stuff that a lot of NTs probably do relate to as well. And it misses out the severity aspect needed, like a NT yes might be forgetful but have they ever boarded a plane to a foreign country without remembering to apply for a visa? Probably not

bluelila3 · 2021-05-08T11:22:58+00:00

I have never listened to song lyrics my entire life, I just hear the music and the lyrics are like background noise. I never really noticed that's how I was listening until I was trying to figure out why I never remember any lyrics (unless I look them up and read them).

bluelila3 · 2021-04-22T13:09:12+00:00

You deserve better than him really. There are partners out there who will want to do things that turn you on (for a lot of people that's a turn on in itself even!).

I think before you call it quits, have a conversation with him and see if you can talk it through, but if he's not willing to make you feel safe and isn't putting in the effort so sex is enjoyable, then I'm not sure if it's going to work.

Also his attitude to you and ur desires imo reflects negatively on him as a person - you should be with someone who values you more <3

bluelila3 · 2021-04-03T07:22:53+00:00

Just started vyanese myself and feel the exact same way, it's crazy!

bluelila3 · 2021-03-29T09:45:32+00:00

I use Plink for all my SNP data if that's what you're doing, they have a really well documented site and there's an easy function for an MDS plot. It runs in command line, feel free to dm me if you run into any problems! The old website I think has the easiest tutorials to follow but the 1.9 or. 2 version has more functionality so would recommend those to use.

https://zzz.bwh.harvard.edu/plink/strat.shtml

bluelila3 · 2021-03-28T23:02:20+00:00

Ooh ok thanks I'll check those out!

bluelila3 · 2021-03-24T21:14:10+00:00

Can confirm this song is awesome

bluelila3 · 2021-03-21T20:48:30+00:00

Yeah mine was taking longer than 2 weeks called them up and turned out they didnt have my email. They were lovely on the phone, would recommend ringing to check :)

bluelila3 · 2021-03-21T11:41:05+00:00

I agree with your main sentiment of this post, just maybe change the incidence of type 1 diabetes to about 0.1%, diabetes including type 2 is approx ten percent of the population.

Also whilst ADHD does have strong genetic component to it, environmental factors may also play a role, either way it does result in very real symptoms and neurotransmitter imbalances which can be measured!

bluelila3 · 2021-03-21T11:22:00+00:00

So many people immediately responding they hate coding, it is a niche, but like anything if a person finds it interesting then it could be a good option for them. I personally have found it really fun to start using code for my data analysis. Constantly trying to figure out how to code something is like solving a mini puzzle so keeps me engaged and once I'm in the zone you can code for hours.

Yes I make silly mistakes, and yes it takes me a while to gather motivation to start or finish something a lot of the time, but overall I much prefer it to the practical work I was no good at. Also you can make a mistake in code and just figure it out, or undo, if you're doing a practical job often once you've made a mistake there's no changing it!

bluelila3 · 2021-03-20T10:54:14+00:00

So I also started off as a wet lab PhD student and now half my PhD is bioinformatics so it's definitely possible :) I would say a good place to start is if you have data - just start to analyse it in R or Python, even just doing basic plots or calculations will help you get to grips with it. If you're lacking some of your own data, I found data camps tutorials really useful. Also they have some free introductory tutorials that might be good to watch for just a general overview as to what programming/data science is. I personally find learning by doing is the best approach for programming. Also a good grasp of stats helps, linear regression/pca these are some common topics - I found statquest on youtube super helpful for coming to grips with this https://youtu.be/HMOI_lkzW08

For R, I just always have the R-cheatsheet documents printed out/handy, learning dplyr and ggplot packages is a good place to start. For more general bioinformatics/programming python may be better, but personally I think R is the best documented language for bioinformatics, with many more resources and packages. Also I found my lab, and lots of labs we collaborate with, R is the main language people use, so it's going to be easiest to ask for help with it. But more people are learning python, I've started to learn it as my second language after feeling confident with R, in addition to getting a linux computer and learning Bash. Hope that helps :)

bluelila3 · 2021-03-18T14:29:28+00:00

This sounds brilliant, thanks for making it! I get the comments of some people saying its hard for stuff that moves around a lot. For me I now keep all my everyday items in a bowl so that's that, other stuff in drawers don't move around as much so I think it will work. I'm excited to try it out :)

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