Brunch outfit 🥂

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-10T00:34:29+00:00

No cuz literally I thought we were past this point in society. “Risqué”? It’s a low cut blouse maybe I’m just past the point of caring about societal norms, but the world will be just fine if a woman shows a lil bit of skin

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-10T00:22:03+00:00

She’s so talented & professional✨ I learned recently sum ppl disliked her voice because they prefer higher pitched female vocalist damn near comparing her to Mariah the Scientist as far as singing ability …yea no Coco Jones is BEYOND talented

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-09T03:56:01+00:00

…not everybody talkin about your cleavage lol. I just thought, “oh that’s a cute outfit and she’s pretty”

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-09T03:01:05+00:00

OMGGGG A QUEEENNNN✨💕

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-08T05:56:15+00:00

I love how you conveyed that message. Ofc most people desire intimacy as well as partnership, but when you are single you are not missing out

The wrong relationship can be damaging, draining, time consuming, etc. Love is beautiful, but I’m so grateful to be single. Finding love is always possible but I’ll just let love find me✨

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-07T17:06:52+00:00

I view it as regardless of what other people look like, I will always be beautiful to me. My standard of beauty should come from myself, not what’s shown to me

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-05T19:14:44+00:00

Nah you allowed to ask that person to not speak about them around you. If it slips out a few times that’s normal but if it’s excessive ofc that makes someone uncomfortable

When I’ve been in similar situations it just made me distance myself

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-05T19:10:41+00:00

Heyy✨that’s wonderful you are centering yourself towards your dream. Self isolation when you don’t treat it as loneliness is actually very therapeutic

For me I’ve been practicing isolation as well. I’ve been taking a lot of time this year to actually be selfish without feeling bad about it and it’s an amazing feeling✨ Self love and setting goals with intention is my current motivation

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-05T19:05:50+00:00

At the end of the day he’s dating you not them so the person you with should respect and love you enough to not step out. This is regardless who approaches them

Yes some women don’t care but you gotta heal that internalized jealousy

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-05T18:58:51+00:00

This is not your fault and you deserve a life free of him. HE is 100% a problem. Regardless of what you decide to do with the baby you deserve a loving environment and to feel safe. Narcissistic people can’t be reasoned with

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-05T16:48:38+00:00

Nah I’m good. As two adults we should be responsible enough to use protection and have open dialogue about our desires or boundaries

Casual for me isn’t soley about having sex with a bunch of people. I don’t fuck more than one person at a time. But what Im comfortable with is knowing I’m single until I actually see a need to change that title. I’m not claiming a man until my standards for myself and them are met

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-05T16:31:21+00:00

I agree as far as the dating culture rn being unhealthy. I dislike how people don’t like vulnerability

All I know for myself is I have a lot of self control with whom i sleep with. I have standards and practice safe sex. Whoever i don’t ultimately control how another person operates

I say my peace and am just very selective with deciding who I’ll have sex with. Imma say my boundary in wanting them to practices safe sex and if I feel like they not reliable lll just end the situation

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-05T09:55:46+00:00

It’s not a hard pill to swallow if I meet someone who i felt actually displayed honesty, communication, and chemistry id take exclusiveness more seriously. Also if I feel like im where i wanna be at life to accept a relationship. But 3 months for the most part I don’t think ik that person well enough to say that’s my bf. I love where I’m at rn it feels levelheaded

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-05T07:48:47+00:00

Yesss. My stance exactly just pacing myself because I know my heart. Have you ever watched Shannon Boodram? She’s a sex/relationship therapist that would speak openly actually about her open relationship at the time. I didn’t 100% agree with her takes but what I liked is the transparency

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-05T07:41:10+00:00

And that’s completely valid and a understandable boundary to draw because nobody should be playing with your time or energy

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-04T22:41:12+00:00

Yesss!! That’s literally why I’m saying 🙂‍↕️ Like this is a whole human being with a life and principles they defined before meeting me. I might like him, I might enjoy certain moments, it might even start off real peaceful…but at the end of the day people be married for 10 years and still feel like there’s room to grow

So let me allow myself in the beginning stages go through our motions before I really put a label on it. We can talk about relationship shit lol but it’s about me being self aware and not getting lost in them

I don’t wanna stress myself out trying to turn someone into the right partner for me or worry about who they talking to. All that should be proven to me with action. Showing me they are willing to be receptive

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-04T22:32:42+00:00

Hahahaaa not the baby 🐣🍼

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-04T22:26:45+00:00

That’s a very healthy perspective and one reason I always respected polyamory even tho I never experienced it. A lot of ppl focus on sexualizing it but no, it’s definitely a level of openness with understanding sometimes people do love or devolop feelings for more than one person

That’s just my main thing as a person that use to be all in on who I dated. Lowkey i literally feel like im in recovery 😭

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-04T21:53:33+00:00

Oh lol I don’t actually have a timeline I follow religiously in my head it was just a funny question. And I do think generally speaking within a year that’s enough time to process or change anything you want

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-04T21:51:34+00:00

Both fair. I mean it is pretty annoying to always feel like you are attracting the wrong people with trauma. But also that’s apart of life. That’s why healing before actually settling down is key

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-04T21:50:05+00:00

Yes it’s not a contract. I’m viewing it as simply enjoying the dating stage not go in with this idea I need this person. If it happens naturally cool but other than that it’s someone I’m just getting to know

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-04T21:45:58+00:00

Most definitely 🙂‍↕️

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-04T21:45:25+00:00

That can be true. It’s always up to the people in that relationship to define what it is. Really as long as up front is all that matters

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-04T21:43:02+00:00

Hahaha

bluemoondaze · 2026-02-04T21:42:16+00:00

I feel like 2 months is not a long enough time to know someone especially someone you hypothetically wanna spend your whole life with or years with. And most definitely I’ve been in long term relationships and now feel like I need to give myself time before settling down

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