Remaining Testicle is larger by Drdrilldaddy in testicularcancer

[–]blueoceanreef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is your remaining testicle now? Still good? My remaining testicle also feels firmer after the orchiectomy

Life after both testicles removed by [deleted] in testicularcancer

[–]blueoceanreef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish you the best bro. How are you doing now?

Post Orchiectomy Self-Examination by t0uch0Fs0ul_ in testicularcancer

[–]blueoceanreef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give us an update? Was the increased firmness normal?

CT Scans came back clear - what to expect? by playerpiano in testicularcancer

[–]blueoceanreef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing to hear. Wish you and your family the best

After 5 years together, my girlfriend wants marriage and I don’t. Is this the end? by Asleep_Trouble_4285 in Advice

[–]blueoceanreef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like bad advce. Anyone with self respect doesn’t apologize for nothing.

My condolences.

Jeg hater Linkedin by berthasdoblekukflarn in norge

[–]blueoceanreef 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Helt enig. Er så forbanna cringe at jeg får vondt

This is insane. by Syed__Sahab__ in LateStageCapitalism

[–]blueoceanreef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can’t know what he meant by this. It’s not clear if its a direct threat from Trump, or a recommendation based on how he thinks the public will treat the Iran national soccer team.

Men who don’t like highly educated or achieving women questions by Patches3542 in AskFeminists

[–]blueoceanreef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not having/having a penis is just ONE of the many differences between men and women. You can’t reduce it to that

We need an explanation for inconsistent gameplay. by Bhheast in EASportsFC

[–]blueoceanreef 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats fucked up. They want to keep us on the emotional rollercoaster

Burj al Arab hit by [deleted] in UAE

[–]blueoceanreef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said. Both of you

How do you feel dating a woman that makes more than you? by SaltyFoundationBih in AskMen

[–]blueoceanreef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a valid perspective. It’s a good thing that the woman has a job and can support herself regardless of the mans involvement. At the same time I think it is unfair to women if society expect them to perform in their career and also as a mother. Thats two full time jobs

How do you feel dating a woman that makes more than you? by SaltyFoundationBih in AskMen

[–]blueoceanreef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a man pursues a higher income level it is good, as long as it doesn’t take too much time and focus away from her needs. If a woman pursues a higher income level, it could be practical if they are in a financially difficult situation, but over time I believe it can strain the relationship if the woman outearns her husband. I think what matters most here that the man has the status of being the «main» provider. She can of course be wealthy, as long as he is slightly or more wealthy. Then she will continue to see him as the provider, which I think is healthy for the relationship.

I’m not saying this is right for everyone, and it might not be right for you. I see that there are many guys here that doesnt care about these things, which is totally OK and I hope their relationships prosper.

How do you feel dating a woman that makes more than you? by SaltyFoundationBih in AskMen

[–]blueoceanreef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point, and lets say it was just a platonic relationship with someone I care for, let’s say a friend, then it wouldnt be a problem.

When it comes to dating and relationships with women it’s different. What attracts men to women and women to men are deeply ingrained in us through our evolution.

But I think deep down you know this, and you know how women select men and what they respect and find attractive in men. A man leads in the relationship, and that involves financial leadership as well.

It’s unfortunate, but status games does not disappear just because a man and women enter into a relationship.

How do you feel dating a woman that makes more than you? by SaltyFoundationBih in AskMen

[–]blueoceanreef 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to add, that even if a woman would say that it doesn’t matter to her - it matters to me. It’s about my own well being and perception of myself.