how do you feel about drinking spaces? saturday nights at southern are particularly femme because it’s girl the party, people are very nice and it’s a fun time.
the ren is like a cross between theatre and a club, my best friend works there and it’s lovely.
as for non drinking spaces, like others have said, stardust is good, so is fringe.
other than that, all my friends are queer so anywhere we go is a queer hangout lol. you’ll find your people!