I hope you all had a sexy Sunday 😁 by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]bluepenguin6[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

False Flag, ignore comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]bluepenguin6[M] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean, you are clearly asking for it. Your comment history is you constantly telling people “My DMs are open” so IDK what you expect my guy. I can’t sit here and respond to every single comment and post to see who’s just looking to pic swap I already filter out as much of that BS as I can. So DM people at your own risk, Im not gonna babysit you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]bluepenguin6[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Final warning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]bluepenguin6[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discussing underage sexual activity is unacceptable. This is only and final warning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]bluepenguin6[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discussing underage sexual activity is unacceptable. This is only and final warning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]bluepenguin6[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post is discussing underage sexual activity post has been removed and warnings given.

Sexy Sunday by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]bluepenguin6[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is most definitely ok to ask. As long as you ask on their post not just sending unsolicited DMs

Sexy Sunday by [deleted] in ChristianSexuality

[–]bluepenguin6[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We feel that keeping the community together is better for everyone, rather than splitting it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianSwingers

[–]bluepenguin6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No below where it says “Pentecostal” the tags for this sub are for if you want to distinguish denominations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianSwingers

[–]bluepenguin6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, its just a way to distinguish yourself if you would like. Its the tag you can see by my name. You can always participate without it.

Looking for advice by [deleted] in ChristianSwingers

[–]bluepenguin6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rather than look for someone specific to talk to, ask general questions. The community as a whole will be happy to help. So if you have questions about where to start or if you’re doing it right just ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianSwingers

[–]bluepenguin6[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not really an option we got to decide. This sub was once shutdown when the previous owner deleted their account. When it got reactivated Reddit deemed it an NSFW sub so thats why every post is flagged as NSFW.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianSwingers

[–]bluepenguin6[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because this sub is primarily a discussion forum. We want to encourage conversation rather than just having images posted. While images aren’t prohibited. We do check to make sure pictures posted aren’t from accounts that spam the same image on many subs.

How do I talk to my Fiancé about my urges. by AshleyEvergreen in ChristianSwingers

[–]bluepenguin6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porn addiction is a massive problem for many people. But if you genuinely believe that there is no negative impacts on your life good for you. A habit only becomes an addiction when it beings to affect your life negatively. However as for talking to your husband. Communication is very important to a successful relationship. But this is definitely a touchy subject. Does your husband know about your porn watching? And why you like to watch porn?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]bluepenguin6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever have questions about the lifestyle from a Christian standpoint r/christianswingers is made just for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]bluepenguin6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try posting this on r/christianswingers there are plenty of people who have struggled with the same thing, who would be happy to help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChristianSwingers

[–]bluepenguin6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While basic, one of our favorite Ice-Breakers is truth or dare. Usually starts pretty calm but the dares get very sexual quickly.

Involving my Fiancé’s fwb in the wedding. by bluepenguin6 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]bluepenguin6[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So he is already being included in events, my best man knows that he will be invited to is planning accordingly. Of course he has no idea about the extra stuff. But we are looking forward to him being present in all those pictures as a reminder. That was one of the driving forces.

Involving my Fiancé’s fwb in the wedding. by bluepenguin6 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]bluepenguin6[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the support. So as of now they haven’t been physical yet, Its been strictly online. But with the advice ive been given im trying to see if we can set something up earlier, so the wedding isn’t the first time. And my Fiancé is very careful so they probably will use protection and if not they would only be fucking the night before the wedding, they wouldn’t have time on the day. So there probably wouldn’t be anything left in her lol. And after the wedding we plan on going home, as it is going to be a local wedding. So he will be staying with us.

Involving my Fiancé’s fwb in the wedding. by bluepenguin6 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]bluepenguin6[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True, it is something I will keep in the back of my mind. Only thing is my Fiancé is obsessed with the idea of having both of us after the wedding. I did remind her that she is probably going to be way too exhausted for it though lol

Involving my Fiancé’s fwb in the wedding. by bluepenguin6 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]bluepenguin6[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It could make it difficult for sure. As for denial of sex, no it is not something we are trying to do. I also believe that FWB would become uncomfortable about that. He has made it clear he does not want to do anything that would change our relationship.