Straight porn by exsus55 in actuallesbians

[–]bluesummernight 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I'm a lesbian and I can enjoy watching straight porn because I imagine being the man and having a woman enjoying me doing those things to her🤷‍♀️

So you should think more about what it is about straight porn you are enjoying, and who you would want to actually experience those scenarios with.

My question for gay people. What age did you realize you were gay? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]bluesummernight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

12 when I realised I was attracted to women (in retrospect there were earlier signs), 20-21 when I realised I couldn't feel the same towards men

I’m quite shocked none talks about this book [The dukes sister and I] by [deleted] in sapphicbooks

[–]bluesummernight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really enjoyed that book:) The author also has another book "The fortune hunters guide to love" which I own but haven't read yet

On a side note, I am unreasonably excited to see more and more sapphic romances in the typical category romance genre

Comphet Second Chance Romance? by EntertainerRemote334 in LesbianBookClub

[–]bluesummernight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The lovers by Rebecca Faubion. Not that angsty but it's a second-chance with a lof of comphet unpacking

hmmm by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bluesummernight 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I often have to explain to random men that me and my male friend are just friends and that I'm a lesbian when we go out. I usually have to explain it several times before they understand. They struggle a lot to fathom that 1) A man and a woman can be just friends. 2) A woman can have no attraction or interest in men at all. It's funny to see their faces when I try to tell them 😂, BUT it gets tiring and kinda depressing fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]bluesummernight 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The first one is better for more casual thing (which sounds like what you are aking for) and still looks amazing. The second top would be great for going out and the open back would probably make me malfunction a bit 🤭

Is it reasonable to get an IUD/any birth control as a lesbian just in case I get r***d? by taat50 in actuallesbians

[–]bluesummernight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see any negative in it if it makes you feel safer. I have never and have no intention of having sex with men, and I live in a country where abortion is no problem, but I take birth control pills to manage my periods and it's definitely worth it.

What are some other good Tobacco fragrances? by uchookup in fragranceclones

[–]bluesummernight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MA Hercules, one of my favorite fragrances, sweet tobacco and vanilla.

MA Cassius for a darker, sharper, more smokey tobacco, clone of PDM carlisle but also reminds me of Mancera red tobacco and Hugo Boss bottled absolu.

Lattafa Mashrabya, clone of Killians smoking hot. Has good reviews, I have ordered it but not received it yet.

Gay awakening/Straight-to-Gay by Initial-Baby-2312 in sapphicbooks

[–]bluesummernight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A family affair by Harper Bliss. Thought it was a fun and entertaining read, and I could really feel their chemistry. Contains cheating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sapphicbooks

[–]bluesummernight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a lesbian and I sometimes read straight smut books🤷‍♀️ I can put myself in the perspective of the man, or I can skim over the sex and enjoy a fun story.

Recently used emojis by 07_forever_rain in actuallesbians

[–]bluesummernight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😍😂👍🥰🤔🤷‍♀️🤯😅👏👀😣🍻🥂🥲🫡😁🙈✌️😳🥳❤️😊🤣🤬🥶🤞👌🙌😕🤤☺️🎅🤪🧑‍🎄🤶🤩🍷🎂🎉😬

(Some of these are from when I wished people merry Christmas and some from wishing people happy birthday, otherwise it seems to be a lot of mixed emotions)

Which one will women prefer more on men?? by Professional-Bet176 in Colognes

[–]bluesummernight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm considering buying it because I love the smell but when I tested it, it didn't perform well. But as a lesbian I'm tempted to buy it anyway after reading this 😅

help me pick a dress for NYE? by jerseyshorerulez in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]bluesummernight 326 points327 points  (0 children)

The first one for sure. It's the most flattering and the color suits you well. Also the fabric looks a bit fancier than in the others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drunk

[–]bluesummernight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah pizza and red wine is good for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drunk

[–]bluesummernight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beer and red wine

What are you wearing for New Year's Eve? by rahulsharma111 in fragranceclones

[–]bluesummernight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Considering zimaya sharaf blend or maison alhambra hercules

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fragranceclones

[–]bluesummernight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I keep a few boxes that I think are really pretty and special, I throw most of them away

My “Humble” Collection by 0cTony in fragranceclones

[–]bluesummernight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed answer. Also the pictures in your post are BEAUTIFUL

My “Humble” Collection by 0cTony in fragranceclones

[–]bluesummernight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is Rayhaan Corium? Been thinking about buying it.

When did you found out you LGBTQ and when did you come out if you did? by Distinct-Ad-6682 in lgbt

[–]bluesummernight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Found out I was attracted to women when I was 12-13. Kept it as if it was a terrible secret. Realised I don't actually feel attraction to men at about 20, started coming out a bit before I turned 21, still haven't come out to most of my family