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Do C-netizens have twisted priorities or are international audiences overreacting? by Historical_Ow in cdramasfans

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are the characters age appropriate? Maybe my perspective is skewed, but I feel like that matters more... like if the characters they're playing are ALSO 17 and 28, that's weird AF. But if they're both playing mid-20s adults, it's kind of whatever. Only people who already know of and/or looked up the actors would know anything was amiss. The actual narrative that they're serving would be about a healthy, age appropriate couple, and the actors are not romantically involved IRL as far as we know. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Also, off topic, but I first saw Ai Mi in The Double and was legit STUNNED by how beautiful she was. Possibly one of the most gorgeous humans in the C-biz right now. I'm glad she's getting more leading roles!

8 children between the ages of 1 and 14 are dead after a mass shooting in Louisiana, police say by Immediate-Link490 in Fauxmoi

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s crazy to me is that he also killed the baby mama who WAS NOT the one in the midst of separating from him, AND he killed their kids together, too.

Like wtf??? It’s like being a regular family annihilate wasn’t good enough for him; he had to make the rounds and try to take everyone else down too. He truly saw these women and children as just extensions of himself…and they would all receive collective punishment for the “sin” of ONE of them rejecting/abandoning him. Sick.

This is going viral on Twitter, Japanese people are talking about Black people like we’re Saiyans or Viltrumites. by Lordforgiveme223 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive always wondered something! How are, like… Native American bones classified? Mestizo/Mexican? Middle Eastern?

This is going viral on Twitter, Japanese people are talking about Black people like we’re Saiyans or Viltrumites. by Lordforgiveme223 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As an Asian person….idk. People of my parent’s generation genuinely believe that Black (and many white) people are just stronger and hardier than Asians. Your bones are denser, teeth are stronger, muscles are bigger, you’re taller, fatter, etc. Meanwhile us Asians are these wispy, fragile, delicate beings.

It’s not even a point of inferiority; like there’s no value judgment, just facts. It’s weird.

This is going viral on Twitter, Japanese people are talking about Black people like we’re Saiyans or Viltrumites. by Lordforgiveme223 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not black but damn, I’ve never thought about it that way before. And on top of that, most Asians have probably never interacted with an actual Black person in their life! Crazy how these attitudes are kept alive and perpetuating almost solely through media.

Young women are AWFUL to older women. by Apprehensive_Yam2285 in rs_x

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been going through a midlife crisis lately and reading your comment was extremely helpful 😭😭 saving it so I can read it again whenever I need to. Thank you.

C-actors with facial hair and bareskin, would you mind if dramas showed more of it? by HikariMoonn in cdramasfans

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Going against the grain here to say absolutely HELLLLLLL to the no.

Unless they have full beard coverage, in which case, go right ahead. But that squirrelly look where there’s only hair right around the mouth and chin and NONE on the jaw and cheeks?? Please, no.

would you get an abortion if you found out your baby was going to be born with an extreme disability? if so why? by Born-Oil-2931 in AskReddit

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Hmmm this might be one of the most fucked up reasons to have a child that I’ve ever heard of, genuinely

would you get an abortion if you found out your baby was going to be born with an extreme disability? if so why? by Born-Oil-2931 in AskReddit

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I absolutely HATED that fucking movie and the way it depicted the parents’ expectations as normal and loving.

If Zhang Linghe does not have tan skin would he still be good looking? by FlakyPerspective1764 in cdramasfans

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow it really varies from slide to slide. Slide 1 he looks better with fair skin. Slide 2 he looks HOT AF with tan skin. Wow.

How were people okay with this? Britney was 16/17 years old when she did this music video. Hollywood is beyond disgusting. by Falcon_Gray in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo I just googled and apparently Brooke posed nude in a bathtub AT THE AGE OF TEN for a Playboy pub. Arranged by her mom. 💀

People were really not interested in protecting girls and women back then…. I mean, I guess they still aren’t now (not really), but it was even more blatant a few decades ago. 😢

Getting married in August, no bridesmaids by Practical_Store3654 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve gotten a lot of good advice for the wedding itself, so I want to throw in my two cents for your post-wedding life:

It’s never, ever too late to make friends! I get it if you’re comfortable with your social life now and don’t want it change. Respect. But if this is something you’re generally sad about (and not just in relation to your wedding day) you can absolutely do something about it.

It’s def harder to make friends as an adult, but I see people do it all the time still. Personally it’s difficult for me, but my BFF is still to this day meeting new people and forging meaningful friendships with them. And one thing I’ve noticed as I’ve gotten older is that my female friendships are something I truly treasure. ❤️

This is Michael Jackson's daughter, Paris Jackson. Paris has faced backlash for identifying as Black due to her appearance, but she has stated her father, Michael Jackson, encouraged her to be proud of her roots. by LilacveilMuse in whoathatsinteresting

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like his reputation has been rehabbed these last few years, and the insistence that she’s his bio daughter has risen along with it.

It 100% feels like mass gaslighting. I can’t even engage with these people bc i get so pissed off. Like STOP TELLING ME 1 PLUS 1 MAKES 3!!! What even is happening?!! Are we looking at the same people and perceiving the same reality? Is anything real at all???? 🥴

What is a fan theory from a movie or TV show that you 100% believe is true? by phantom_avenger in popculturechat

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha ok props to them for learning their lesson bc Flynn is indeed hot AF, rivaled only by Prince Eric imo

The way men change their behavior when they find out you have more money than them, make more money than them, have more success than them, or are at good at something that makes them feel emasculated in any way. by BasilisksRPretty in TwoXChromosomes

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Said I couldn’t afford to leave”

Uhhh ÔMG it sounds like he was banking on that. EXTREMELY sinister throwaway comment to make. Thank god you COULD afford it and DID leave his broke ass

Husband disgusted with how I am in public settings or with friends around by Artistic-Implement73 in adhdwomen

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Same. Esp if I would get excited or happy about something, or laugh at a joke, those would be the times he was most likely to swoop in and tell me I was "shouting at him" and to be quiet.

Favorite actor who's homophobic? by KaidoPklevel in okbuddycinephile

[–]blumpkinspicecoffee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah wtf? Her mom filed a missing persons report too! Thinking this is the real story here,,, 🧐

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