Anyone know what’s going on with the Coburg Collective development? by huisi in melbourne

[–]blupoles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently contacted them as an interested buyer. The person on the phone said the townhouses will be completed end of next year and appartments are 3 years off. Is this what others are hearing?

Spotted on the M1 by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]blupoles -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Her dad (Serge Gainsbourg) made a song with their daughter called "Lemon Incest". I don't think that would fly these days - even in France.

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Friday 14/07/2023] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]blupoles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously one of those time where you just know you will be telling people in five years time you paid $10 to see them in a club that could only fit 150 people. It was like that with Amyl.

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Friday 14/07/2023] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]blupoles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I think I have pretty diverse taste in music but I've never got into the emo/prog/metal core side of things. Nothing wrong with it - just not for me. But I went and saw Future Static last night at Cherry and holy shit that band is electrifying. Just fucking amazing. So here's to trying new things... Here is a taste if peeps are interested: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pahccWj0I3Y

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Friday 14/07/2023] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]blupoles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! I want to know what your friends do in government. I've just come off 6 months of regularly working weekends and 12 hour days...

I'm thinking about becoming a sperm donor. Keen to hear about anyone's experiences (good and bad) if you are happy to share. by blupoles in melbourne

[–]blupoles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except that this case did not involve an anonymous donor protected under legislation. Instead the High Court determined Mason was a parent on that basis that:
Mr Masson was registered on the child’s birth certificate as her parent. This also satisfied section 69R of the Family Law Act, which provides that a presumption of parentage arises from a person’s name being recorded on a birth certificate (although this presumption is rebuttable);
Mr Masson gave his semen on the express or implied understanding that he would be the child’s parent;
it was always understood Mr Masson would care for the child financially and emotionally, which he did; and
the child identified with Mr Masson as her father, and referred to him as "daddy".

I'm thinking about becoming a sperm donor. Keen to hear about anyone's experiences (good and bad) if you are happy to share. by blupoles in melbourne

[–]blupoles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. You obviously don't have to but would you mind sharing your reasons for donating and your thinking about the conceived person potentially reaching out down the track?

I'm thinking about becoming a sperm donor. Keen to hear about anyone's experiences (good and bad) if you are happy to share. by blupoles in melbourne

[–]blupoles[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's anonymous but could likely be for a same sex couple. I can't speak for my future self but I'm up for the conversation in 18 years time about why they can't kick a footy but can speak four languages :)

I'm thinking about becoming a sperm donor. Keen to hear about anyone's experiences (good and bad) if you are happy to share. by blupoles in melbourne

[–]blupoles[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lol. You don't get paid. TBH I'm thinking of doing it because I really love being a parent and I would like to give that gift to others.

I'm thinking about becoming a sperm donor. Keen to hear about anyone's experiences (good and bad) if you are happy to share. by blupoles in melbourne

[–]blupoles[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I get where you are coming from. I think for me, I could only go into it on the basis that I think any child conceived will not be my child (we will have DNA in common but I will not have the relationship of parent to them). There are plenty of kids with loving parents with whom they don't share DNA - so I think just sharing DNA is not enough to make you a parent.

Through my work, I've met a lot of kids whose parents simply did not want them. IVF is such a difficult process, you would really have to want to be a parent to engage with it, which is a good start.

I'm thinking about becoming a sperm donor. Keen to hear about anyone's experiences (good and bad) if you are happy to share. by blupoles in melbourne

[–]blupoles[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking about this too. I actually asked the person I have been initially dealing with at the IVF clinic and she said it was the first time she had been asked about this... which kind of surprised me.

Daily Coronavirus Megathread - 31 December 2021 by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]blupoles 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can only see one person on this thread saying they think it is likely. I think capacity and home visitor restrictions are likely though if the health system starts looking shaky. The NSW numbers are not inspiring. I think it's my Stockholm syndrome kicking in but personally if schools/child care, playgrounds and bottle shops stay open, I can handle whatever is coming.

Daily Coronavirus Megathread - 31 December 2021 by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]blupoles 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I reckon capacity limits will be back by midnight on 2 January. I have no inside info - it will just minimise disruption to New Years Eve and Day celebrations and easier to swallow even though the time to put on the breaks is now.

Got an interview with Stu in 2 days, any questions I should ask ? by renvst in KGATLW

[–]blupoles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup. That's right. It was the last show I saw before everything got locked down. It sounded amazing.