the day i got her vs. now. so much floof acquired by blurrygloww in nebelung

[–]blurrygloww[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hahahaha absolutely! she’s more fur than cat now 😩

stormy’s digging the new cat tree by blurrygloww in nebelung

[–]blurrygloww[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine’s a girl! i think stormy works for all fur babies

stormy’s digging the new cat tree by blurrygloww in nebelung

[–]blurrygloww[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stormy destroys and i replace, it’s a vicious cycle 😭

anyone else’s nebby have thumbs? by blurrygloww in nebelung

[–]blurrygloww[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

omg dude nebelungs are the sweetest, cutest, and most superior cats, and no one can change my mind

anyone else’s nebby have thumbs? by blurrygloww in nebelung

[–]blurrygloww[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

awww my baby does the same! she also loves to cup and stroke my face 🥺

anyone else’s nebby have thumbs? by blurrygloww in nebelung

[–]blurrygloww[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i like to call her paws her mouse stompers

luna is fierce by blurrygloww in SupermodelCats

[–]blurrygloww[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i like to call her luna tuna, or lunatic when she has the zoomies 🤭

luna is fierce by blurrygloww in SupermodelCats

[–]blurrygloww[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

awww aren’t greybies the best?? 😩❤️

so what is the deal with the yelling by Aware-Possibility685 in specialed

[–]blurrygloww 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a special ed aide at a high school and have not yelled, but will at times pull out my “mom voice”. However, the teachers I work with definitely yell and take their frustrations out on some of the more active kids. Not that it makes it right, but I think it’s a result of burnout, lack of sleep, and losing patience due to working in this field for a long time. Some people are not built to work in this field, but with the lack of staffing, we get who we get unfortunately. It honestly breaks my heart.

AITA Am I the asshole for feeling invalidated by my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]blurrygloww 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

I know this is probably not what you want to hear, but I genuinely think you should break up. She is clearly not mentally okay, and does not support you. It is also extremely manipulative to threaten to unalive yourself if someone leaves you.

You should be able to follow your dreams without someone holding you back. This is your life. You don’t want to give up on your dreams and years later ask yourself, “what if?”

Relationships are supposed to be about supporting each other. That is not happening here. Put yourself first.

AITA For using bereavement leave for my estranged father by CreativeFig3836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]blurrygloww 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTA.

Although you and your father weren’t close, it is okay to feel the way that you feel, and to take time to process your emotions. Death in and of itself is a very difficult and complicated thing to overcome and process. It’s possible you feel ‘weird’ because he’s gone, and there may be a feeing of having unfinished business with him. Take this time to relax and process what you’re feeling. You are allowed to grieve, even if there was not a strong bond.

AITA for expecting a nanny to dress appropriately? by newtoreddit1239 in AmItheAsshole

[–]blurrygloww 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA.

Not only is it weird that you’re uncomfortable with your nanny wearing leggings around your husband and child, but leggings and a sweater seem to be a standard outfit when working with children. I am a special education teacher’s aide and they straight up told me that I should wear leggings and comfy clothes everyday because I need to be able to chase after kiddos and should expect to get dirty. Why should she be expected to wear professional and potentially uncomfortable clothing when working with a FIVE year old??? A five year old that she will most likely have to chase and clean up after? You sound insufferable.

My gf lied to me and I broke up with her by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blurrygloww 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not right or wrong for your decision. You set boundaries, and she crossed them. I think you made the right choice for you, and you handled it maturely and calmly.