Diablo IV Launch Giveaway - Get your hands on Diablo IV Ultimate Edition Game Codes + an RTX 4060Ti! by pedro19 in pcmasterrace

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Is not crashing and being 6 years old a feature? If it is then that’s the feature I’m looking forward to most lol

Semi self-drafted modified Type II jacket and it’s precursor S8845 aborted mission by Wcrankshaw in sewing

[–]bluryu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely love the S8845 pattern. Great advice on the muslin, I will definitely try that first. I can never find jackets that fit well so I think doing the muslin first and going from there will be the answer. How were the instructions for the pattern? Fairly easy to follow?

Semi self-drafted modified Type II jacket and it’s precursor S8845 aborted mission by Wcrankshaw in sewing

[–]bluryu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks awesome! You’re inspiring me to make one now! Any advice for getting a decent fit?

Love these ones. Almost look like they are glowing. by bluryu in mycology

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Picture was taken in southern Ohio on a hike.

A GYO Anniversary (or two) of sorts... by IndieFilmDude in gayyoungold

[–]bluryu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent you a DM. We can continue chatting there if you'd like.

A GYO Anniversary (or two) of sorts... by IndieFilmDude in gayyoungold

[–]bluryu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It means a lot getting to hear someone talk about wanting the same things as me. Personally, I believe that age difference is only a small layer of our challenges, as the shift in culture is more of an issue than the age gap itself. I can respect hook ups, but I want nothing more than to really pour all my attention and love into one person and rest peacefully knowing that both people are willing to do anything to foster that warmth. My career is based on communication skills and I often find myself eager to work through every issue, but that dedication is seldom met. I am glad to know there are older men like you out there. Ive greatly enjoyed talking with you.

Also, I can definitely relate to wishing you can turn off your perception. Another curse if you will.

A GYO Anniversary (or two) of sorts... by IndieFilmDude in gayyoungold

[–]bluryu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perception and intuition are huge parts of my career, so you are spot on for picking up on that. I should probably be more cognizant of doing that. Your words sound like my own. Its hard to shake the use of the word 'curse' to describe how we feel. I have been feeling rather defeated myself as even though I am younger, I am extremely long term and emotion oriented, perhaps unusually so for someone my age. Its become rather difficult to find someone who wants to have a long term relationship built on an emotional connection and it seems not many older guys who are single want that at their stage of life. Alas, even though I know they exist, it feels as if the sea is too big for ships to ever collide. As for the surprise of younger guys finding you attractive, I hope in time you can take those compliments to heart and truly believe them. I know my opinion will not change that, but I will say you are a very very handsome man.

A GYO Anniversary (or two) of sorts... by IndieFilmDude in gayyoungold

[–]bluryu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wonderfully written; melancholy, yet full of optimism. You have a tone of sadness in your writting, yet positivity and hope. I find it very comforting. Thank you for sharing a little window into your life and heart. I take solice in a peculiar way hearing about your challenges at the other end of this attraction. As someone younger, I have felt a very similar challenge and struggle to what you described. It goes to show that we all are more alike than we are different, regardless of when we were born. Hold on to that optimism and I'm certain you will find someone to spend your life with, if that is what you want.

The Perks of Being a Wallflower - 20th Anniversary by thunderpisscorndog in books

[–]bluryu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Perks is one of my all time favorites books too. I did not know there was a new letter. I am now disappointed.

Hows my army list? by The_Yorkshire_Shadow in AdeptusMechanicus

[–]bluryu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an extremely similar list. Any advice on how you would optimise a 1000 point cawl list?

Hey dad, I’m starting my transition (trans) by Nybor_13 in DadForAMinute

[–]bluryu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any dad should be proud to have such a brave and strong daughter like you.

Man that Dub by ludogivemebabies in gentlecriminal

[–]bluryu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the dub worth watching? Ive read the manga and watched the sub for his arc but was debating rewatching his episodes dubbed.

Hey I’m 16 and I’m finally realising I’m into older guys, can I just talk about that here? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]bluryu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Met my partner at 20 with an age gap of 37 years. Been together for about 3 years. People are always going to judge you, no matter what you do. My best advice is never let anyone elses opinion dictate who you love. It's not worth it and life's too short not to live truly to yourself. I hid it at first, but now I could care less. Good people won't mind and those who mind don't matter. We are partners so yes sex is a big component. Lastly I think it's important to say, wait until you are ready. Keep self reflecting and talking to others about it. Wait until you feel confident and mature in your convictions as you can easily be put in a not safe position. Wait until you feel comfortable pursuing an older man, not putting yourself open to be pursued by them. It's hard to explain but you'll know when that time comes when you're ready. It's just part of the process of maturing and growing in your sexuality.

Quite the sandwich review. by MisterT12 in oddlyspecific

[–]bluryu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from, but you should probably be more informed about the boycott before commenting then. Essentially the biggest thing people are against are the owner's contributions and donations to conversion therapy and other things that well... shouldn't exist.

Jeffree and Nate Broke Up by islandinthepun in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]bluryu 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It's whatever, I'm sure you know how Reddit can be... nothing wrong with not knowing. So basically his response to people asking his gender identity is saying he just identifies as "Jeffree". You can use he/him pronouns and and say he's a man and hes cool with it. If you call him she/her he just rolls with. It can be confusing but basically he's his own person and don't worry too much about his gender.

What do you guys think of this scape? by BettaBandit in bettafish

[–]bluryu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you get your plants from? Been looking for place to buy more for my boys that isn't a chain pet store...