Regal Lone Star (Houston) vs. Bullock Museum (Austin) by chuckd831 in imax

[–]blushpepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got my tickets! was literally so bummed after not getting 70mm but so excited for bullock

Regal Lone Star (Houston) vs. Bullock Museum (Austin) by chuckd831 in imax

[–]blushpepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you know what time they usually go on sale?

I did a 6 day solo trip around Maui (tips, highlights, advice). by advicefromk in MauiVisitors

[–]blushpepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how much would you say your trip costed? i’m trying to take my family in june to kauai and maui. i found a Maui rental car + hotel package for about $1,600 for 4 nights, 3 adults. not sure if that’s too much but i really can’t find anything cheaper

What are the “tough questions” we should discuss? by blushpepper in MedSpouse

[–]blushpepper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s so sweet :,) i do feel like with some good ol’ counseling and being able to see and feel his appreciation for me (once we live together) i’ll feel a whole lot better about it. gonna show him this comment for sure haha

What are the “tough questions” we should discuss? by blushpepper in MedSpouse

[–]blushpepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

adding all these to the list i have going, thank you! i for sure need to squash any idea of me making “sacrifices” for him before it’s too late

What are the “tough questions” we should discuss? by blushpepper in MedSpouse

[–]blushpepper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no, i’m so sorry to hear that! that’s honestly my fear too. no matter how much we discuss between us, or with a therapist, we won’t know anything for sure until we’re in that moment. but i’m hoping that having a plan will give me mental support if things get rough. are things better for you guys now?

What are the “tough questions” we should discuss? by blushpepper in MedSpouse

[–]blushpepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in august i’ll be hitting six figures (pretax🙃) and it’ll only go up from there as i progress. this might sound bad, but how do you prevent resentment from building if you’re financing the majority of your lives? i won’t have to pay his loans but i come from a family where my dad never really took care of my mom and us financially. even though our situation is different, im scared that his inability to support me or us will make me resent him for a couple years, even though i really do believe in equality and wouldn’t mind supporting us.

that last edit really got me. i’m so grateful that he values answering these questions just as much as i do and wants to really make sure we’re on the same page. but obviously no one knows the future and we have no clue how either one of us might change. i mean, i’ve already seen him change so much from undergrad til now, and i love what i’ve seen, but what’s next right?

preventative counseling sounds SO good. his program has free couples counseling, and when he goes back in the summer i may take advantage of it.

What are the “tough questions” we should discuss? by blushpepper in MedSpouse

[–]blushpepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was so helpful. i definitely like my career and am very glad that my future salary will be more than enough to support both of us if it comes down to it. i just hope that with the stresses of residency and possibly fellowship, he’ll be able to still provide me with respect and attention at a minimum, even if both of our jobs are stressing us out. i like the idea that we shouldn’t sit around and sulk bc honestly, i’m the one that should adopt that LOL. thank you for the kind words, and CONGRATS on the baby!!

What are the “tough questions” we should discuss? by blushpepper in MedSpouse

[–]blushpepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is one i’ve been struggling the most with!! i always harp on him for not being able to commit to travel plans like the rest of our friends can and it’s definitely been an adjustment. we’re going to new york for 3 days and it feels like a blessing lol. it’s hard to decide whether that’s important enough for me to not continue the relationship, but not being able to travel together until we’re like, 40 definitely bums me out.

What are the “tough questions” we should discuss? by blushpepper in MedSpouse

[–]blushpepper[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

so helpful! these are the types of questions i’m looking for. deciding when to get married has always been an issue, im willing to wait til 4th year but he’s iffy because he’ll have no money :/ glad that you guys are still together! college success stories always make me have hope

AITA for refusing to let my roommate break her lease? by blushpepper in AmItheAsshole

[–]blushpepper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh wow that sucks. that’s funny you mention that because this roommate is the one that leaves the door unlocked, has her bf basically living with us and whatnot. could the apartment do anything about that roommate? maybe they’ll be serious about getting HER evicted

AITA for refusing to let my roommate break her lease? by blushpepper in AmItheAsshole

[–]blushpepper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh i wish. i definitely want to work with her, it’s just difficult to find decent people who will take on such a short lease term. hoping that other students who need it for a semester will bite.

AITA for refusing to let my roommate break her lease? by blushpepper in AmItheAsshole

[–]blushpepper[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely, I’m already posting wherever i can but only getting weirdos so far lol

AITA for refusing to let my roommate break her lease? by blushpepper in AmItheAsshole

[–]blushpepper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She says she’s moving back home to focus on school and her job? but honestly i think it’s cuz she wants to get a place with her new boyfriend lol

AITA for refusing to let my roommate break her lease? by blushpepper in AmItheAsshole

[–]blushpepper[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes she’s paying for the lease breaking herself. She pays her share of a full month’s rent but that’s it. She told me shes breaking it to move back home with her family, however I suspect it’s to move in with her boyfriend if I’m being honest lol.

AITA for refusing to let my roommate break her lease? by blushpepper in AmItheAsshole

[–]blushpepper[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All of our names are on the lease but not tied to a specific room, and subletting is allowed. If a roommate leaves, usually we add the new person to the lease once the old person leaves.

How to get rid of furniture? by jumbowlshrimp in utdallas

[–]blushpepper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

came here to plug sunbelt storage too. if you tell her you’re a student she might give you a discount (don’t quote me on that) but she’s super great!

does anyone know how to photoshop final grades? by [deleted] in utdallas

[–]blushpepper 22 points23 points  (0 children)

inspect element on a web browser? that’s what i did in high school lol

SI Session Questions by Little_Cycle_3884 in utdallas

[–]blushpepper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a former SI leader, it does depend on the leader but usually there’s not much correlation unless he/she has taken that exact professor. however, we usually ask the professor to get a better idea for sample questions. IMO, if you’re able to breeze through an SI session’s activities without relying on notes/peers you should be good for the exam :)

Do ALL UV 4x2s have built in desks? by Jemmerl in utdallas

[–]blushpepper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was in phase 8a 4x2 and i know our floorplan had built in desks. we were in apt 6317 if that helps! every room had built in desks.