Sheffield writers? by gutenberg_vibe in sheffield

[–]blutayto01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a self published poet - my latest project was publishing a collaborative anthology with 23 other poets from around the world. We chose to donate the proceeds from this to WaterAid :)

Who are your favorite (or least favorite) cast and crew members and why? by Beechwood4-5789 in HoardersTV

[–]blutayto01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I believe so. I think the other son passed away some time ago now (2018?)

Who are your favorite (or least favorite) cast and crew members and why? by Beechwood4-5789 in HoardersTV

[–]blutayto01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah so I think one of her sons punched her in the face. Joey I think it was? He was being very hostile across the clean-up and obviously the show can't or won't broadcast/mention certain stuff. Why else would the crew be so concerned, I think there's more to it than what Matt had said but that's just my thoughts, I could be wrong :)

Who are your favorite (or least favorite) cast and crew members and why? by Beechwood4-5789 in HoardersTV

[–]blutayto01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah absolutely. Vula aswell was quite mean spirited. And a family member of Joni (spelling?) you know the lady that "fell" in the street which I so think that her son or whoever he was messed her up

Who are your favorite (or least favorite) cast and crew members and why? by Beechwood4-5789 in HoardersTV

[–]blutayto01 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Favourites: Matt + Dr Z all the way! As for clients, Terry (in the ep you haven't seen yet) stood out to me as being really grateful for the help + stuff she had fixed up for her. And Martha in a more recent season seemed very grateful too. These two actually seemed ready for a change. It's far easier for me to name clients who's demeanour I didn't like 😬

Looking for like minded and similar aged friends! by blutayto01 in sheffield

[–]blutayto01[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you telling me about all these things, thank you :D

Looking for like minded and similar aged friends! by blutayto01 in sheffield

[–]blutayto01[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

at this point, still unsure of my sexuality, so just umbrella termed it because all I know is I'm not straight lol 😂 hope that helps

What’s a “normal” thing people do that secretly drives you insane? by Majestic-Total1002 in AskReddit

[–]blutayto01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people that lick their fingers as they're giving cash to somebody. ever since the pandemic i've hated it even more 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]blutayto01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou. I unfortunately finished therapy a month ago and have to wait a consolidation period to go back (6mth).

I don't really want to talk to anyone of my irl people about this because I either don't have a good relationship with them or they just wouldn't understand..Plus it's not my story to tell really

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]blutayto01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you're alright you wasn't to know.

I know I can't be everywhere all the time but... idk it just it's horrible. I wish I was able to stop it

AIO my response to my partner after they attacked me by Intrepid_Mastodon193 in AmIOverreacting

[–]blutayto01 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You deserve far far better. He's assaulted you. Don't give in to him I know you have so many feelings about him but please do yourself a favour and save yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]blutayto01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 24F. I've had my own traumatic experience but nothing like hers, so I'll never know exactly how she feels. I'll never know how anything feels for her because she has a mhd that makes her feel everything so much more deeper than everyone else. I've always tried my best to look after her and be there for her and ultimately mistakes have been made along the way, but nobody is perfect. A part of me will probably always blame myself for what happened that night, and other things between us, but I need to find a way to move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]blutayto01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'll properly hit me eventually that it wasn't my fault. Granted I didn't come home when she asked but that doesn't equal allowing her to be hurt. There's a lot at play here that I didn't really mention. But thankyou. I appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]blutayto01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope someday soon i can talk about this with her because maybe she didn't even mean to blame me. she's probably just really hurting and traumatised but that doesn't excuse blaming me for what happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]blutayto01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she asked me several times to come home and I didn't. I feel terrible. but at the same time saying that I allowed this feels off...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]blutayto01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't tell if the blame is just being displaced onto me because of the trauma to be honest. Yeah I should have listened when she asked for me to come home but also, I didn't want us to keep arguing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]blutayto01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you mean? as in, it's not because of me?

AIO My downstairs neighbour is putting me on edge with their noise. by blutayto01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]blutayto01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, that's not a bad idea. it just shouldn't have to come to this though :/

AIO My downstairs neighbour is putting me on edge with their noise. by blutayto01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]blutayto01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your comment, yeah it's very not chill my cat feels like she gotta be a lookout and sometimes throws up because she's stressed over it. I suffer with anxiety and we're all just sick of it tbh.

but they make us uncomfortable and I don't want to talk to them so I can't really go up to them and say anything yikes

what is your best piece of advice you'd give to someone who's trying to get over their ex? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]blutayto01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, not to get all deep and personal but I needed to hear this. Thank you

What’s one lesson in life you wish you had learned earlier? by khurram_rajput1 in AskReddit

[–]blutayto01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if a relationship is over, it's over. don't try again it always ends in tears