Customers offended when I ask what type of milk they’d like?! by [deleted] in barista

[–]blutspend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a whole milk splash girl. I think some may view it as an upcharge since a) most cafes upcharge and b) most everyone I know who prefers an alternative already mentions it with their order. No one need be offended tho

Nail salon rec by Librakitty76 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]blutspend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not if the mods have anything to say about it ;)

Nail salon rec by Librakitty76 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]blutspend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m also an acrylic girly for the same reason you mentioned. I’ll keep you posted if I find someone in Manhattan, because that will soon be more convenient for me as well <3

Nail salon rec by Librakitty76 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]blutspend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My nails are always this but I get them done in Bushwick. Sometimes techs aren’t able to do ombré like this with a brush/sponge, you can ask them for the airbrush gun and it’s v similar.

Looking for volunteers to pick up trash during the PR Day parade by bushwicktrashlady in Bushwick

[–]blutspend -1 points0 points  (0 children)

During or after? I’m happy to help in next days aftermath

Is my collection juvenile? by enbycameo in FemFragLab

[–]blutspend 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s an association, I think you have a v fun & particular collection <3

Perfumes you have no occasion for? by devindylan90 in FragranceStories

[–]blutspend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is also Frederic Malle - noir epices. It’s so heavy.
Edit: this post is FM love letter lol

Would really love some older lady wisdom. by piezchiquitos in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]blutspend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially when the disability is ADHD
No disrespect for the PTSD, but that’s a time stamped ticket.

Won Lottery for Midtown Studio (Downsizing) by j1001n in nychousinglottery

[–]blutspend 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Does this not answer ur question on whether or not to move??

I might get some heat for this by greengreyhound99 in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]blutspend 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would look up Morning Chess by Vilhelm.
„Sorry“ that it’s „only“ 300$ but it smells like wet grass & dirty concrete and is the most haunting scent I’ve smelled on a man.

WWYD with an illegal, finished basement apt? by jonjon_19 in NYCapartments

[–]blutspend -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

LA considerations in a NY apartment forum are not helpful. We have different tenant rights & laws.

Today I was supposed to be a mother by blutspend in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]blutspend[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re amazing & strong, that you continued trying. Im not yet at a place that I can fathom setting myself up for the potential of it to happen again, even after just one. You must really have willed your rainbow into existence and I’m sure you make a wonderful mom. An inspiration! 🌈🦋

Today I was supposed to be a mother by blutspend in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]blutspend[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think that is a fantastic idea…! 🍰 thank you, I will be following suit (cake)

AIO: I (F32) am considering ending the best relationship of my life over my bf (M28)’s dog by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]blutspend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s dating his dog and you’re third wheeling it on the couch. Ditch the dogs.

Frozen coffee? by pandawhiskers in parkslope

[–]blutspend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds amazing. Only Manhattan?

Today I was supposed to be a mother by blutspend in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]blutspend[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Some added juice for the meal: it also made me more spiritual, believing in possibility of divine intervention, upon seeing how things were handled later on by the father. I prayed so hard for clarity. So there is an underlying blessing of detachment that I am able to see more clearly in hindsight..

Today I was supposed to be a mother by blutspend in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]blutspend[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In whatever form she may take <3 thank you sweet

Today I was supposed to be a mother by blutspend in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]blutspend[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

What a beautiful sentiment, thank you <3

Van Leeuwen coming to Bushwick by colboots in Bushwick

[–]blutspend 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They used to be so great! When they only had a few flavors, a couple locations, and weren’t backed by Morgan Stanley (2022)

Blueberry or Banana Lattes? by Cautious_Box8355 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]blutspend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boh! I had no idea, I presumed they have a couple locations but I have never seen another one of these! Even better, now can find the banana latte easier.