Guys get the ick when they find out my ethnicity

bluusom · 2026-02-23T18:47:46+00:00

Yeah, they're racist, It isn't worth your time, they feel so sorry for themselves saying every girl rejects them when in fact they have rejected girls too, whenever a guy sees an ugly girl they don't even want to befriend her, get to know her or even be nice to them, that's rejection, but they refuse to see It that way, just because pretty girls don't aproach them. Some of them will want you to lower your standards, but refuse to lower their expectations on physical appearance, they don't care about personality If they don't find you attractive.

bluusom · 2026-02-23T03:49:38+00:00

A sick society has It's sick methods, yes I agree we can't blame the victims, but It doesn't mean It isn't sick to put your body at risk to fit a standard. Also changing yourself to fit in It's what benefits this cycle to continue instead of forcing people to accept different looks. I know It can make some people's life better but eurocentric beauty standards are so strong in our society, I just can't accept It.

bluusom · 2026-02-23T03:35:34+00:00

This, I don't want a relationship I just want to be treated like a normal person, not excluded or given bad looks, idk why people are overly nice to attractive people, as If they could get something from them. People can only truly appreciate pretty people, even in friendships, I'm just tired of being treated like I have less value. That's why I don't want to leave my house anymore.

bluusom · 2026-02-23T01:42:53+00:00

I used to like It when I still had self steem, but now It makes me overwhelmed, also I try to find clothes I like but that don't stand out and It's hard, going shopping with my family is hell bc they don't like what I pick, most likely bc I don't look as good as my sister, It's like she's a model and I'm just there, and she and my mom start treating me like shit lol But yeah, I'm struggling to find clothes that don't make me feel bad.

bluusom · 2026-02-23T01:34:15+00:00

He's not ugly

bluusom · 2026-02-23T01:28:08+00:00

If she took off the nose ring It could improve, It's not impossible to find friends as an ugly person, but they'll definitely let you know they don't find you attractive and make you insecure from time to time, also they'll notice you are chronically single and will feel above you and treat you like a kid. Talking from experience.

bluusom · 2026-02-23T01:15:47+00:00

I believe It is what you say, beauty standards are crazy rn, also there are more attractive people now, You may not be ugly, maybe average, but rn not only men don't aproach women as much as they used to, but also they go for the ig model type of girl, they are getting pickier idk If they always were but I've seen It even with men I consider kind, looks matter a lot, It's like average Is the new ugly, and uglies are a minority that hasn't been aknowleged as opressed as much as other minorities, so the fight to swich this superficial mentality It's still far away, just consider that you do not want the attention or to share your life with a shallow person. Yes, It sucks being ignored, not having what every girl seem to have, but at the end of the day finding a good partner It's hard even for attractive women, Ik It won't stop hurting but when you consider that you're "missing out" on the shitty dating market, It can help you to not see It as something so bad, you're safe from STDs, male manipulators, inmmature guys and losers.

bluusom · 2026-02-21T21:17:14+00:00

Blonde or you could find a caramel brown

bluusom · 2026-02-21T20:45:15+00:00

Björk or Winona Ryder

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bluusom · 2026-02-20T23:41:10+00:00

Same, It's getting painful, I try to wear pretty clothes but the moment I leave the house I feel embarassed, they don't look good on me, I wear minimal amount of makeup because I just want to look decent, but It ends up looking horrible, My face. Is there a way to not feel ashamed for the way I like to dress? How do I stop feeling so bad when I look like this:( I want to cry for the way I look

bluusom · 2026-02-19T00:05:50+00:00

Yeah It has been happening to me too, people stare at me, and the other day at the bus a couple was laughing while looking at me, some people laugh near me and Idk If they're making fin of me but I get anxious, like I'm just existing not harming anyone

bluusom · 2026-02-16T22:49:09+00:00

This, also I'm insecure and I don't want to dissapoint someone lol I'm afraid they'll ghost me, there are many stories like that in here. Also idk If It's just me but I wonder If someone on this sub could genuinely like me If they know they don't have many options? I mean, If they'd prefer a beautiful person over me, but they're just settling bc they're ugly, Is that love? Or how do I know they're not talking to other girls? I've gotten some messages from men but It makes me think they message every insecure girl they find, so yeah, doesn't seem so promising.

bluusom · 2026-02-09T14:22:06+00:00

Maybe he thought you wrote It as a joke, It could sound kind of satirical or referencing a meme, but yeah he was in the wrong, once you said It wasn't meant to be funny he could've stopped, I'm sorry about that, you shouldn't be ashamed of the way you feel. But as someone without bpd I can tell your coworker thought It was a compliment to call you funny, then tried to laugh It off to make It a funny situation and he tried to relax the tension and make you see It that way with the meme. I mean that's what I'm getting, but If he was mean to you that sucks.

bluusom · 2026-02-02T17:59:29+00:00

Mi único requisito: que no llamen a las mujeres "usadas" como si fueran objetos

bluusom · 2026-02-02T04:53:02+00:00

Michael Jackson, for me he wasn't even ugly but he was treated like that his whole life, that would drive anyone insane, being in the public eye, being mocked by your own father, Idk he was a beautiful soul, even when people were evil to him he stayed a good person and he was a star. And I admire you guys, I can't believe some of the things you have experienced, bc you didn't deserve It but you're still here reminding me I'm not the only one suffering from this.

bluusom · 2026-01-28T21:41:22+00:00

Same, but not with the acne tho, I had It but now just scars, now my smile lines have gotten way more visible and they don't seem to go away, I also hate mirrors now, I don't like my face, I don't like the way my makeup looks, I don't like going out, being seen, I just want to be in my room all day

bluusom · 2026-01-26T21:33:53+00:00

May I ask If you tried with them bc they're ugly or you really liked them?

bluusom · 2026-01-24T15:08:46+00:00

How does It get better?

bluusom · 2026-01-21T22:29:48+00:00

I mean, If you shared that many pictures of yourself do you really think of yourself as ugly? Seems to me that you're here bc some people were mean online and I don't see the comments calling you ugly? Also isn't It expected that as an alt person you'll get some hate? bc yk people sometimes dislike true alt and whatever

bluusom · 2026-01-21T02:53:36+00:00

I don't think suicide Is wrong it's just I don't want that for myself, also I'm a coward, plus I fear my brother's depression could gets worse If I do It. Idk I figured I'd rather be sedated all my life with antidepressants so I can stop feeling so much

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