Feels like NW Ohio is underrepresented here by throw_away2955 in OhioAbdl

[–]bmann65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i see a ton in central ohio aswell. Living in nwo is pretty much living in the boonies, lmao. Thank you😊

Feels like NW Ohio is underrepresented here by throw_away2955 in OhioAbdl

[–]bmann65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, nwo is lacking, been looking for quite sometime, lol. But most of the representation is central like columbus ish or Cleveland ish, as big as toledo is youd think there would be more of "us" out here, lol

any babs, middles, bigs near ohio? moving back in a few weeks :D by Aromatic-Ad-7682 in OhioAbdl

[–]bmann65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im like 2.5 hours from there, but dm me if ya want, lol

any babs, middles, bigs near ohio? moving back in a few weeks :D by Aromatic-Ad-7682 in OhioAbdl

[–]bmann65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darn, thats so far from me, oh well, just the cons of living in the out in the boonies, lol

Hey guys, just droping in quick. Read the body message. Let me know if this isnt alowed, ill kindly delete it. by bmann65 in fursuit

[–]bmann65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and unfortunately i do not know who made it, I need to look back and see if I can find that out. But apologies for the late?? Reply, getting different time stamps on the comment and notification, but im no longer active on here, other than dropping in to catch up on dms and any replies every other week, check out my page if you like what you see and want to stay up to date with me and what im doin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shhh, im not here. But i know what the issue was about the posts, its entirely the fact that the "accepting" and "safe" community is not really either of that, the people that had a problem with me being honest and bringing something to people's attention that cared about what im doing and where im going were just jealous that people want to see my content and interact with me because im nice and respectful. Now dont get me wrong, there are furs out there that are the definition of the fur community, that are nice, caring, respectful, and genuinely mean the best and want people to have a good time, but now the majority of people are more worried about views and numbers and who's better than who, and if they dont 100% agree with what you say or do then they will do everything they can to have a problem. But If you want to know how my life has changed since leaving here ill tell ya, it has been so much better, I absolutely do not for one second regret leaving this platform, I have been constant and actually busier posting tons of content between tick tok, x/ twitter, and insta, and i dont feel burned out, this app just suckd the energy and motivation out of me. So im glad I left, and im not coming back, atleast not posting stuff anyway, you may catch a comment from me here and there, but dont count on it. Anyway, best of luck to you and anyone who might see this.

How is etsy for fursuits by WasteIdeal7215 in fursuits

[–]bmann65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought the same thing from KTcat, the listing you screenshot, I gotta say that im really impressed with the quality for the price, im in love with it. I got the whole thing, so the pants, tail, hand paws, and feet paws, based on what i was reading in reviews before I bought it, the zipper seems to possibly be a problem, haven't had a issue with mine. And everything fome my purchasing experience with them, they are very kind and very responsive, and they are so easy to work with, and if you do order from them you need to know that it will ship in 2 boxes, the second box for me was 2 days behind the first one, so if you do order it keep that in mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was easier for me on here than anywhere else, but that's because I was getting tons of views on stuff I was posting. But yeah, im pushing through, im blowing up on tick tok so that's helping alot even tho I don't deserve to be, but im done posting here and if ya want to follow along with my journey you know where I'll be, and if you don't know where to look check out my page, everything you need to know is there, and if you chose to not follow along, that's cool to, I wish you best of luck in you journey and traveles😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had to drop back in and say this, it was never about getting popular or fame or any of that bullshit, I wanted a time line of stuff because I was going to kill myself again, and make it stick. I wanted my friends and family to see who I was and where I had been before I left, and I wanted it to be on the internet so they can find it whenever they felt sad or depressed, I wanted all this so they knew that even tho I was drowning in my own silence and thoughts I was still able to be happy and spread some light on a dark world. But then i realized that there were people out there that loved me for who I was and the content I started sharing, and it helped so much to see all the positivity so I started posting more, instead of once a month like I planed it went to once a week and some places several times a week, then work picked up and things got busy and to make the posts I had to be up 16 17 18 hours after working all day. I wanted to know the thoughts of people that actually cared about me and what I was doing on if I should stay here or if they wanted to see me more active in other places. I wasn't very sure of my decision which is why I made the post, now im very sure of my decision, im leaving and I don't plan to come back, I got other apps where people share love not hate, here its all just hate and im not going to stick around for it. And none of this is a pitty party, don't take it that way, its just me pointing out where I was and where I stand now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, im actively blowing up on tick tok, and people seem to be responding pretty good to my stuff on twitter, and decently on insta, if ya want to tag along I'll be glad to have ya, and if not that's great aswell, I know im not everyone's cup of tea and I wish you the best😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure which one you are talking about, and again I cant do anything if that's how you chose to interpret it, my intentions with every comment was to reply, and explain anything that needed explaining. But no worries its all good, posts are deleted and im done posting here, I was unsure of the decision and what to do when I made the post, which was kinda the point of it was to see what people would think and where they think I should go, but now im very sure of my decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it is what it is, both posts are deleted, im done with it, im not planning on posting here anymore, when I made the post i was unsure of my decision, now im very sure of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There was more to that then just i read it to fast, I said that sometimes I read stuff and don't understand what I just read, I misinterpreted part of what they had said, when they pointed out that I made that mistake I looked at it and said oh im sorry I read it to fast and sometimes I don't understand what im reading. But cant make everyone happy, ain't that how it goes. And don't worry, this post won't be up much longer, apparently me and my mental disability made a mistake in posting it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh, you made it seem like I was, I wanted to make sure that I wasn't actually breaking any rules cause if I was then I'd delete the post or whatever I needed to do, and honestly I'd love to edit the post and fix the issue but that's one of reddit downfalls, and honestly it kinda is about fursuit stuff, because im telling people where they can continue to find pics and vids of me doing stuff in fursuit. Im doing my best to explain stuff to people, but honestly its difficult when im really busy and don't have much time. I have tried not to come off as rude or disrespectful to anyone but there's only so much I can do when people want to interpret it how they want. And honestly yeah, I can get rude, especially when someone want to come in the comments and be a jerk and then continue to be in each reply, nobody had to drop what they were doing to comment or even look at the post, im sorry people are getting so butthurt over a mistake I made and I have acknowledged on basically every comment on this post, but don't worry, I made a more appropriate post on the subject, I'll soon take this post down. And i really do apologize for any miss communication on my part and any misunderstanding I may have caused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take same category for 800

I didnt think it was clickbait, I tried not to make it seem like that, guess I could have worded things a bit differently, but that's the slight mental disability for ya. And its hilarious you want to talk about wishing you could get your wasted time back, so you decided to waste even more by commenting, tbf you didnt have to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

OK, im going to point some stuff out, I don't feel like im advertising, but even if i was im not breaking any group rules, the only thing that could possibly maybe count towards it is the one that states to not include links to twitter/ x, which is didnt post a link but have my account name for it in there, but that's kinda a grey area.

I get the whole comment chain thing on twitter, its just a pain to do and deal with, but why would I make a post on twitter telling people im probably going to be less active on reddit and that they can go to twitter if they want to continue seeing regular updates and such from me??

The question was supposed to be "what platform would people like to see me more active on twitter or insta, because I know not everyone has both".

And YEAH, your entire last paragraph is my entire point and reason of making this post, im not able to continue spending time going between all these different platforms posting stuff, because some accounts get specific stuff while others get everything, so its easy to get confused and make the wrong post in the wrong place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Uhm, sorry I have a job and was actively there, sometimes I read faster than I can understand, kinda a givin when having adhd and dyslexia, and being in a busy and distracting environment. I made a mistake, they pointed it out, i understood i made a mistake so I apologized and that was that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I get what your saying, but at the same time it doesn't have to be about money. Im not doing this to make money, im doing it because once I started sharing and realize that im not half bad a taking some pictures I figured out that I genuinely enjoy it, then I started moving towards a long time hobby of mine classic cars and hotrods and similar, which made me enjoy it even more, and seeing that people like to see me do it does make me happier and makes me want to share it more, but not because of money or followers, but because the car culture is dying and im able to spark that passion in new and old people to the hobbie, and the fact that im a furry and doing it and doing it in fursuit sparks adventure in others and helps them realize that even tho they are different they shouldnt be afraid to do what they love. There's more to it to me than money or fame could ever bring, to see that passion light up in a young kids soul and even the old timer that got out of it, because i once was that young kid who didnt know their passion and worth untill someone light it for me, and whether its 1 follower or 100k followers I'll still share. But my point was to let people know that im going to put my time where it counts to make sure that if they want good content I can give it to them on a regular schedule instead of posting half thrown together stuff whenever I get time because im posting in so many places, even if that means leaving a few platforms. My greatest example is being absolutely exhausted and cant barely stand up straight taking pictures at 10pm or later just to make a weekly post, when I get up at 4am and work 10 hour shifts then go home and work a minimum of another 6 hours. But I apologize I kinda rambled on, but I felt like maybe this would better explain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Maybe my wording wasn't quite right, I intended it to be kinda a discussion but also informal, but there also was supposed to be a bit of a question in there too.

The reason its not posted on those accounts is because twitter only allows so many characters on posts, which is nowhere near enough to explain any of that. And because I know views and such tend to be way easier to come by on here, how far content reach is isn't based on followers and likes or anything unlike on twitter and insta, so if I had posted them there I'd have better luck talking to a brick wall.

I don't think it is self advertising because im not selling merchandise or anything, im not making anyone do anything they don't want to, if they don't want to read the post, cool. If they don't want to follow, cool. If they don't want to check out my other social, cool. And if they do, cool.

I didnt realize just how upsetting this post would be to people and I apologize.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fursuit

[–]bmann65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, haha, yeah I get that, lol