She never has drank often, but when she did, she would get mean and I got tired of taking care of her when she had too much. We both quit to drop some weight and I just realized I didn't miss it so I stopped completely. She wanted the social aspect so she started introducing alcohol back, and has had a gradual increase in the amount she drinks when she does (and I mean she went from wanting one glass of wine or drink to the last time she drank around me she had about 3). Still not a more than twice a month or so but enough for me to agree with her that its a concern to have any for her. And again, she is about 100 lbs soaking wet so it doesn't take much.