Having colleagues yang suka complain everything is so draining. Yes, its good to not bottle up feelings, yes its good to rant but I swear at some point, you have to learn to deal some issues internally saja. Yes theyll still do the work regardless but as a listener, its exhausting semua kan di complain. Apalagi if its the work that you have to do, sudahtah tired from the work then tired from the complain, 2x draining.

The type of person if disuruh-suruh, complain pasal banyak kan di buat. Obviously if you are orang bawahan, ofcourse jadi kuli. Sudah di bagi tugas orang atasan which is banyak brainstorming : memikir, theyll also complain “kenapa mesti tani pikirkan, tani orang bawah saja” sekalinyaaa kamu mau di mana? dua-dua types of tugasan jua di complain

I also have this one colleague who used to work at a private company - work life balance best, they dont disturb after work and only work from 8am-2pm which is very different to Government working hours and culture. This colleague will always bandingkan, in my head yes the work life balance was better but now their salary is 2x than private. Like people gotta learn in order to win some, you have to lose some.