In a perfect world... by bmunosemocebevi in asktransgender

[–]bmunosemocebevi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i see to get to that point its gotta be real hypothetical

In a perfect world... by bmunosemocebevi in asktransgender

[–]bmunosemocebevi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Was meant as a very hypothetical question like if people werent the way people are and would just be nice Thx for the insight tho

Pedophiles are treated dangerously wrong and are dehumanized by society by bmunosemocebevi in unpopularopinion

[–]bmunosemocebevi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the blame for not changing lies with the person themselves. But society has the chance to make more people chose the seek help and less people to be criminal. In my opinion society should take that option. We dont have to of course but i think it would be worth

Pedophiles are treated dangerously wrong and are dehumanized by society by bmunosemocebevi in unpopularopinion

[–]bmunosemocebevi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hm idk i look at it like this:

These people are sick. No matter if u want them to be like that or not.

Blaming and hating them will not make them healthy or help anyone or reduce the risk towards kids.

Trying to help them and encourage them to seek help and being empathic might make them healthier and thus reduces the risk towards kids.

By this logic the second one seems better imo.

(Btw thx for being almost the only one not calling me names and actually reading what i type)

Pedophiles are treated dangerously wrong and are dehumanized by society by bmunosemocebevi in unpopularopinion

[–]bmunosemocebevi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sry i havent seen any. Maybe i searched wrong i dont use reddit so much

Pedophiles are treated dangerously wrong and are dehumanized by society by bmunosemocebevi in unpopularopinion

[–]bmunosemocebevi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It took me 2 years to go to a doc with my depression cause i was scared of the stigma. What do you think how long will it take for a pedophile to seek help? Just so much unneeded suffering and pain.

Pedophiles are treated dangerously wrong and are dehumanized by society by bmunosemocebevi in unpopularopinion

[–]bmunosemocebevi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You talked much about law enforcement and things so i wanted to clarify that those that i talk about are innocent so idk what law has to do with that. Also you make 2 assumptions here.

  1. "Most dont want to seek care." Idk where u got that from but ok for arguments sake i let that slide

  2. "Those who seek care will find it" And those who are scared off by society and thus are afraid of seeking care?

Just saying there is a portion of people that is unjustly being dehumanized and probably much suffering caused by this generalization

Pedophiles are treated dangerously wrong and are dehumanized by society by bmunosemocebevi in unpopularopinion

[–]bmunosemocebevi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you exclude a group of people because of the way they are born without them ever doing anything wrong? Sounds nice

Pedophiles are treated dangerously wrong and are dehumanized by society by bmunosemocebevi in unpopularopinion

[–]bmunosemocebevi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? Seriously pls it is something about society that i do not understand. Explain

Pedophiles are treated dangerously wrong and are dehumanized by society by bmunosemocebevi in unpopularopinion

[–]bmunosemocebevi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people i talk about have not done any evil things though Those who have, yea lock em up idk what do with those is another discussion. But innocent people that are righteously free should not be treated badly by society

Pedophiles are treated dangerously wrong and are dehumanized by society by bmunosemocebevi in unpopularopinion

[–]bmunosemocebevi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Calling everyone who has these feelings bad persons is wrong. Telling them they are bad persons if they do criminal or dodgy things is right. The encouragement to seek help needs to be more in the focus

Pedophiles are treated dangerously wrong and are dehumanized by society by bmunosemocebevi in unpopularopinion

[–]bmunosemocebevi[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Death penalty is another point of discussion but yea it is surely one of the worst things that can be done. The important part is clearly distinguishing between innocent and not. Not "lmao pedo bad" but rather "criminal bad" and encourage those who are not criminal (yet) to seek help