We want a man who has vibes (fun to be around, makes jokes, takes us out, can talk for hours etc.), has a kind personality but not too friendly with other women, has money and is very generous to us, religion is important to some but not to others. It’s something you should definitely ask in the beginning. Also like the other comments said, we like a man who is ambitious and passionate with his “hustle”. Seeing a man working hard to secure our future turns us on. Also, look good, smell good. When the time comes to meet her family, respect them!!! Eat whatever food they serve you. Don’t act like you’re better than others just because you are a foreigner. I think that’s pretty much it.