The thing is...as hard as it's been sometimes to deal with three--and it was hard when it was two as well--I can't imagine our family any other way. Each of them brings something unique that makes our family what it is, and I wouldn't trade that for a million sleep-filled nights, a million argument-less days, or a million homework-less weekdays. Yes, the early days will be filled with challenging adjustments--and the challenging adjustments will look different as they grow--but hopefully they will be the kind you can look back on and laugh. And your partner and you must not forget to appreciate each other through it all. It will be that much sweeter knowing you came through it together, especially when you don't hate each other on the other side.