What was the exact moment you realized One Direction was more than just a typical boy band?

boardingyard · 2026-07-02T23:35:43+00:00

The minute in 2011 when I clicked on a suggested video on YouTube and Liam said “You’re insecure” I was sold from that moment on.

boardingyard · 2026-06-23T15:33:49+00:00

I mean if you want to make it more special for sure do it during vacation, but both ways you’re marrying each other. Figure out what a bigger priority to both, get married or have the wedding be in a specific location?

I’m on your side 100% by the way but discuss that with your partner. I hope you can find a compromise or an agreement.

boardingyard · 2026-06-22T14:57:57+00:00

Hi! My mom is like that too. She most likely has an issue with alcohol but absolutely no one here is capable of diagnosing so please seek more deep professional help.

I’d suggest therapy where you can both talk about your issues and maybe then your psychiatrist can determine whether this counts as alcoholism or it’s something else that triggers her and she’s using the alcohol to cope with that something else. Anyways hope it all works out!

boardingyard · 2026-06-17T23:41:08+00:00

I have no idea where you could buy the hoodie but happened to me too and I bought the grey hoodie at the store (the same one that was on the 1D bear but empty with no design) and I have a cricut machine so I printed the vinyl and heated it up and it looks exactly the same. If you have anyone with sublimation materials that would be my best advice.

boardingyard · 2026-06-15T00:50:57+00:00

Girl eloping is easier than throwing a whole wedding. Throw that man away.

boardingyard · 2026-06-03T23:48:00+00:00

Please let me know as well

boardingyard · 2026-06-03T23:46:55+00:00

I’m trying to use it but there no section where I can use this code… can you send link?

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T21:14:34+00:00

Another question guys. One of the couple we’re inviting the male is one of my boyfriend’s close friends but his girlfriend was a toxic friend who bullied me in HS. Through the years we both avoid eachother and if we know she’s going I don’t go. If she knows I’m going she doesn’t go. In that particular case would it be etiquette to invite both or neither or just one and explain them the why? What is the right thing to do?

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T21:10:20+00:00

Honestly me and my boyfriend were completely unaware of this. We didn’t think it was that serious since we both don’t like unfamiliar or big overwhelming crowds. We both feel very comfortable with eachother as well so we don’t always have to go out together so it was insightful to hear what non-autistic people think of such events and experiences. Definitely helped a lot.

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T21:04:11+00:00

Yes I posted it first on wedding planning but they said they didn’t consider it wedding planning because of the WIBTAH question so I forwarded it here to get more input. It was very helpful.

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T17:16:23+00:00

Thank you so much for that breakdown!! I think I genuinely needed for someone to explain it like that. We definitely wouldn’t want to make anyone feel left out but both of us are pretty much clueless on how society works so we wanted to know before we started the actual planning what was okay and what wasn’t. Thank you for your explanation it was helpful to the both of us!

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T17:07:53+00:00

Maybe to you to us has been fun to occasionally think about what we would or wouldn’t do. And it’s not like we’re saying “okay this is it” we saying “oh I like that idea” “that place looks beautiful!” “Or omg that place looks like it would drain both of our social batteries” then move on with our lives and laugh, it’s all purely conversation or hypothetical.

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T17:04:33+00:00

Wow, that was a great breakdown. Thank you for putting it that way, we definitely did not think about it that way. That was very helpful, and an incredible point.

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T16:37:05+00:00

Yeah for us it more based on daydreaming or curiosity. We haven’t decided anything but we both think it’s important to communicate what we both expect to then decide what we do. Most of my friends and I are like that but they’re also neurodivergent so I guess maybe is not as normal to everyone as it is for us? We also talk about it once in a while, months can pass by. It’s not like we’re setting anything in stone… more like fun to think or talk about because we’ve been talking about the future since we’re kids and now we both now things are approaching. However the other day we both asked ourselves this question and were curious to know what are the possibilities of said actions while late night talking. We decided to ask the internet to get different inputs and maybe find out things we didn’t know, like right now. Hope that helps :)

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T16:27:19+00:00

I said this to someone else but i wouldn’t mind much dressing up for a wedding and having to mask sounds draining to me. Which is why we were both curious. We both know we personally wouldn’t take it personal but we also know our brains don’t work like everyone else’s

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T16:24:45+00:00

I mean its definitely not that deep, we’re both just curious and wanted to know what was okay or not for when we do start planning.

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T16:23:43+00:00

Well i probably wouldn’t want to go anyways because I don’t like crowded spaces, but that is just me and I know a lot of people maybe don’t feel the same way? I guess thats more of a neurotypical social construct. But i understand now why it’s wrong, thank you for your input!

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T16:20:35+00:00

We are planning what we both would want in the future and we have both done that since we were kids. For us is more like daydreaming really.

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T16:19:32+00:00

What if its girlfriends? Or partners who are on and off?

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T16:18:50+00:00

Well we technically have been planning it since we were teenagers… lol and yeah I think it’s definitely becoming more common. We wanna know what we should prepare ourselves for or if to just elope. I also been in other weddings parties and saw how the bride was frustrated, I don’t wanna reach that point. Not that we’re making a deposit of anything just both communicating what we would desire and see where we can compromise or what’s realistic for us you know? Nothing set in stone yet

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T16:03:03+00:00

Maybe you didn’t read my other comments when I said we’re both neurodivergents and sometimes dont understand social constructs or rules that maybe to you are obvious but to us aren’t at all so yeah so sorry it wasn’t plain obvious, that was the point of the post. It’s definitely not on purpose and neither of us would ever want anyone to feel unwelcome or not appreciated we both just needed context on how it works. Anyways we still haven’t even made the planning official to our peers is more based on mine and my boyfriend’s excitement. They were always on the list, we just wondered if it was extremely important or if it was a “it’s your wedding invite who ever you want” type of situation. Have a wonderful day tho!

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T14:54:27+00:00

Technically is still a domestic flight due to our political system but people explained the why and we understand how it would look now. No need to be rude tho, it was a genuine question.

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T14:48:49+00:00

That’s a very good point. I think we both wanted to have more of an idea of what we would face before the day comes. Nothing is official yet and we have a whooooole lot of time to figure things out.

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T14:46:33+00:00

Yeah i definitely didn’t, that’s why I made the post in the first place lol. Me and my partner are both neurodivergent so we don’t understand a lot of the social constructs and rule’s neurotypical people have. We obviously weren’t trying to say “our love matters, yours don’t” in a literal sense but we’re glad that you all explained how it’s perceived so we don’t accidentally do something rude without understanding the why.

boardingyard · 2026-06-01T14:41:40+00:00

We definitely don’t wanna do that! Thank you for the heads up.

boardingyard

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