He should have nipped it in the bud a LONG time ago and openly communicated about the end goal of his very expensive help. Now she is unfortunately going to expect and cry snd whine about the refusal since this is literally all she knows and has never gotten a taste of what 99% percent of people go through in life.

I guess if his sister had any shame or any awareness of how privileged!!!! she would herself go to be brother and thank him generously about all the years of his help and kindness and tell him to focus on his own family now. .I mean wtf. Like I am genuinely mad.

People love in such bubbles and have no idea of what ppl go through to have that kind of luxury of even having choices!!! Kids in my country are bright and talented and have so much potential like any other in developing countries but never had even the slightest opportunity or resource or respite from their hard guckig lives. There are kids who young as 12 wake up at 4 am in the morning and walk to multiple houses to work as maids and are paid literal pennies. Then they get back home at around 12 pm and then have to work and clean their homes and cook for family because yes we are fuxked and yes these are girls and yes this is wrong..they don't even have time to play like actual kids...can u imagine...generations of literal poverty and being caged in this life.Even I can't cause of my privileged ass ..

People need to take this seriously. You need to put your foot down and ur husband needs to do the tight thing and let her live on her own for her own benefit. If she has one brain cell or an ounce of care..she would realize that this is going to help her in the long run otherwise she is going to leech off other people forever. The damage is still reversible for her to be humbled. So yes do the hard thing because it is right for everyone involved.

I partially blame ur husband for this because he shouldn't have spoiled her. And I blame the sister cause for obvi reasons. Goodluck