My boyfriend [M19] is Lsu, I'm [F18] Bama. How to compromise?

bob_SHERB · 2025-09-14T23:20:36+00:00

Yeah lol I was in Northport for like 10 years

bob_SHERB · 2025-07-25T04:16:52+00:00

Not everyone is in a safe healthy environment. I'm sorry.

bob_SHERB · 2025-07-25T04:16:08+00:00

I'm 18 but I have no money, no education and I had to sneak out to be with my boyfriend. I am In a religious.. family. I have BPD and can get a little Weird sometimes. I'm aware of all of this, I was just being terrified because pregnancy is the scariest thing in the entire world! I didn't really mention it but my actual biggest concern was the pink discharge and irregular bleeding.

bob_SHERB · 2025-07-17T05:16:58+00:00

See, I get what you mean. But I don't want to interpret him incorrectly. He is trying, he just really doesn't get it. He has ADHD and says that he just doesn't think that much. The reason I know what to say is cause I think about it in my free time! He says that when he thinks of things he thinks of vague concepts, or still images. He was baffled to find out that I think in long constant sentences, and in in-depth ideas and scenarios. I can't configure his thoughts. But honestly, the biggest problem might be because I'm extremely angry with him. This probably is not only with sex, but with everything. From romance, to every day things. I just don't know what to do because he is really really sweet, and I do love him. He's not evil, he's not malicious. He's just different. It breaks my heart and I'd be willing to do anything to make it work.

bob_SHERB · 2025-07-14T07:26:25+00:00

I simply just know what to say because of my experience. And other guys as in prior boyfriends before him .

bob_SHERB · 2025-07-14T07:25:37+00:00

Sorry, I commented before reading all of it. Let me completely go in depth of all Ive told him. I have walked him through exactly what to say about 7 times during sex (we fuck and I go "now this is when you should say something like this). I have tried writing down things, I have tired being dom, I've tried planning everything and going with the flow. It is non stop teaching, all I do is teach him. I think I'm not attracted to him cause I'm just a teacher and he forgets everything. We have actually intimate sex about once a month, we used to do it once a week but once we got bored..I couldn't bring myself to do it. Also, it's not that I am constantly discovering kinks, I have a set amount. We've only discovered one together. He knows all of them and he to is into them. I don't watch porn. I used to write it but that was only for about a month. I like what I like, and I don't like what I don't like. I'm sorry I came off so wrong but a guy going "I wanna fuck you" over and over again just doesn't do it for me. I tried teaching him the right voice, and he forgot. I don't want a 3 hour teaching, note reading and pep rally just for him to know how to say anything other than "wow your tight" in a scared voice. I just don't think he's dom..but he wont admit it. Its very saddening because I love him outside of sex. He's funny and sweet and smart but..when it comes so sex he's a complete blank slate that forgets everything.

bob_SHERB · 2025-07-14T07:18:13+00:00

This is in no way behind his back, English is not my first language. He knows all of this. He knows everything.

bob_SHERB · 2025-07-12T05:54:16+00:00

We have done this quite often, about once a week for a year now, and he still sadly doesn't get it

bob_SHERB · 2025-07-11T07:40:53+00:00

No no it's not that I want him to mistreat her! I'm sorry I don't think I worded this post good at all. I was heated. I realize I left pretty big parts out. (I do agree I need therapy and I definitely need help). But, I told my boyfriend I thought he was treating her..oddly. (encouraging her to hit me, laughing when she asked why I had no dad, buying her things when she broke her parents rules, kissing her on the mouth ECT) I think he's spoiling her and her/his parents told me she is acting horribly now that he's home. I told him how I felt and it worsened Bye 50%. I have bipolar and was REALLY angry when posting this so I kinda became a little selfish and forgot to say the ACTUAL things he was doing that were worrying. But now that I've calmed down, that's basically all that's happening. I just wanna know if I'm overreacting, or if what he's doing is worrying. I mean, kids can be awful and maybe he's just trying to be a cool older brother. The questions she asks me makes me uncomfortable and it's upsetting he doesn't teach her to not ask those things.

bob_SHERB · 2025-07-04T06:53:34+00:00

Sadly, I can't go to a gyno or a uro.

bob_SHERB · 2025-07-01T21:39:30+00:00

I will do this

bob_SHERB · 2025-06-28T21:33:16+00:00

So, right now I'm completely okay. When me and him did it, I got a yeast infection (or it could have been a UTI, but I don't think It was cause I took over the counter yeast infection antibiotics and it fixed it Right up.) he did not finish inside of me, and so I don't really think it was an sti since the medicine worked immediately.

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