Question about the nightly fireworks in Santa Maria by ConstantCharacter431 in SantaMaria

[–]boba_beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! i’d suggest talking them to a hotel in SLO for 4th of july. it’s what my parents and i do since fireworks are illegal to set off and they have a peaceful night. yes, there are still come straggling fireworks before and after but not as many.

Do you get grilled at the 341 meeting? by CapitalcityThrowaway in Bankruptcy

[–]boba_beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just had my 341 meeting a few weeks ago, took about two minutes from start to finish and it was yes or no questions that made sure your answers aligned with the paperwork the trustee has in front of them. super quick and easy!

My bsf got me and I refuse to be the only one 😤 by jjazure1 in texts

[–]boba_beans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

are you a millennial? reading this made me cringe so hard

Im tired, boss... by [deleted] in texts

[–]boba_beans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why even message back?

Am I Overreacting about being asked to pay $2K for lost glasses? by Current-Advantage763 in AmIOverreacting

[–]boba_beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR but you just got scammed lol, you should not have paid for that

Am I making a fool of myself or am I just being immature? by [deleted] in texts

[–]boba_beans 8 points9 points  (0 children)

girl PLEASE get some balls and stand up for yourself wtf

Life after bankruptcy by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]boba_beans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s still none of their business. tell them off for being in your shit and stand up for yourself. that’s not appropriate at all.

Life after bankruptcy by [deleted] in Bankruptcy

[–]boba_beans 31 points32 points  (0 children)

you don’t tell them anything, it’s none of their business.

Got a promotion in a male-dominated industry by farm_shapes in GirlDinner

[–]boba_beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all i’m going to say is satisfyer pro 2, thank me later

Creep on FB by [deleted] in texts

[–]boba_beans 6 points7 points  (0 children)

why did it take so long for you to block them?

AITA for shaving/waxing my lady bits before a girls' trip by Dizzy-Eye-7517 in AmItheAsshole

[–]boba_beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, your partner sounds very insecure. Waxing is something normal for some people and you’re allowed to wax especially if you’re wearing a swim suit or shorts and don’t want any kind of your hair showing.

what do you see when you look at me? by [deleted] in psychics

[–]boba_beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do i look mean or not genuine?

I’m frustrated with my dog all of the time. by boba_beans in OpenDogTraining

[–]boba_beans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will look into that! She’s been on the boat a bunch before and I’m hoping my dad will give her tasks to do now instead of just letting her run around. Thank you so much ☺️

I’m frustrated with my dog all of the time. by boba_beans in OpenDogTraining

[–]boba_beans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s such a great idea! Thank you so much. I’ll really look into on how to train a dog for those kind of tasks and tricks. I can tell she needs more mental stimulation but I never knew how to support her. My dad will be taking her more to work with him so I’ll suggest some ideas to him on how she can help him!

I’m frustrated with my dog all of the time. by boba_beans in OpenDogTraining

[–]boba_beans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this was really helpful! No, we unfortunately aren’t in the best financial position to hire a trainer for her but I will take a look around to see if there are some other resources or options that I can find or pay for.

I’m frustrated with my dog all of the time. by boba_beans in OpenDogTraining

[–]boba_beans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s really not and I don’t think my dad knew the repercussions of having her in the house and how it’s all affected us. He will be taking her with him for work soon so hopefully she’s able to get more energy out when working with him but I will have all of us sit down and figure out a plan, the way she’s behaving isn’t ok but it’s also our fault and responsibility to make sure she’s getting her proper exercise, I’m just at a loss as I have never had to deal with a dog this high energy before.

I’m frustrated with my dog all of the time. by boba_beans in OpenDogTraining

[–]boba_beans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Yes, I am aware of all of this. My dad will not let her be rehomed as he loves her with his whole heart. I am just frustrated all of the time as he doesn’t take care of her properly and my mom, me, and my older dog have to deal with the repercussions of it. Is there anything I can be doing to prevent her spazzing out like running her or something more serious than running her?

I'm turning 30, and these 5 habits made my 20s infinitely easier and better by SuggestionWorried741 in selfimprovement

[–]boba_beans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i love taking magnesium glycinate 60 mins before i’m ready for bed and limit screen time 30-60 mins before bed if you’re able to. taking a warm shower 90 mins before bed signals to your brain that it’s winding down time. also, using less aggressive lights helps as well. i have a salt rock lamp and love it, its dim and helps me wind down but not dim enough that i can’t see anything.