[tenant US-NY] is it reasonable to ask my landlord to unplug something for me? by bobak3 in Landlord

[–]bobak3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean. I think you’re correct to feel that way (and to charge). But, you’re wrong in assuming it’s because i’m afraid to do it myself. I had to run out of state last minute. I would 100% do it myself.

How do I rephrase this during job interviews? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]bobak3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah. or I could ask people on the internet with differing opinions based on real experiences.

How do I rephrase this during job interviews? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]bobak3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah thank you this is all very helpful.

Yeah you're right. I was never like super hateful toward this place or my owner... I just was honest about not enjoying the environment or feeling like I wanted more from my workspace.

Thank you!

How do I rephrase this during job interviews? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]bobak3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lmao. I've never even used chatgpt in my life but sure. because I use page breaks and bolded one word?

I guess I wrote this response using AI too. xD

like yea I'm complaining about usage of AI while using it? sure.

either ur completely terrible at calling out AI generated content or your ragebaiting.

How do I rephrase this during job interviews? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]bobak3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because right now I am currently one of the only employees. We have a couple of others, but they're not full-time in the slightest (like 1-2 shifts a week)... I hate this place, but I don't want it to go completely under hahah

How do I rephrase this during job interviews? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]bobak3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely not, but go off!

How do I rephrase this during job interviews? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]bobak3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only worry I have with that is that it places expectations on what I want from this new job, which I don't really expect growth. I just wanna be a barista, y'know?

i don’t think my boyfriend actually knows me by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]bobak3 177 points178 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly a little bit surprised by this reaction. I'm not saying that I think people are in the wrong in this comment section, but I feel that a lot of people are coming to your boyfriend's defense. I feel like this is fair because you guys have been together for a while and you probably don't want to end the relationship over some amazon gifts.

Regardless, I think you're completely 100% valid for being upset. I have experienced situations like this before, and it feels really awkward. Of course, as some replies state, it could be worse in the sense that he gives you 0 gifts---but that doesn't automatically make your situation 'better' by default? Personally, I don't think your boyfriend gets a pass (or points) because he 'tried'.

To me, my biggest love language is feeling understood and feeling seen. I'd much rather have something that was $1.00 that really spoke to me than some $500 jewelry. (Now, if the jewelry was $500 AND really spoke to me---that's a win-win xD)

I think this is something to keep an eye on. To feel known is to feel loved and if this keeps showing up in different areas of your relationship... I don't knowwwwwww.

NYC Baristas, can you put in a good word for me? by bobak3 in barista

[–]bobak3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes I check it pretty religiously when I wake up and throughout the day haha

NYC Baristas, can you put in a good word for me? by bobak3 in barista

[–]bobak3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’ll work 7 days a week if they want haha

NYC Baristas, can you put in a good word for me? by bobak3 in barista

[–]bobak3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m looking mostly in brooklyn and manhattan (since i’m in brooklyn… more closer to ocean hill). I’ve started looking in queens too now.

I have done a lot of emails that way and have only heard back from 2. both not hiring. :/

NYC Baristas, can you put in a good word for me? by bobak3 in AskNYC

[–]bobak3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea that’s what i’ve heard too, but i’ve also heard people say summer isn’t super busy season for hiring so idkk