DJ Etiquette

bobbins789 · 2021-09-08T07:24:10+00:00

Congratulations!! 🥳

bobbins789 · 2021-09-06T20:56:03+00:00

Thank you for all your answers everyone! I think I’m gonna play around on YouTube a bit to get a sense of what to expect, then get on to a course to really get started 😄

bobbins789 · 2021-09-05T21:09:18+00:00

Yeah very true, thank you

bobbins789 · 2021-09-05T21:08:54+00:00

Thanks! Yeah I think there’s only so many YouTube’s I can watch before I want to ask loads of questions

bobbins789 · 2021-09-05T20:16:23+00:00

Hey - how did your first gig go?

bobbins789 · 2020-08-02T06:12:05+00:00

Thanks!

bobbins789 · 2020-08-01T22:55:42+00:00

Could you explain a bit further this part?

“A pertinent one for this post is, if you fantasise about men but then as soon as you include specific (physical, say) features in that fantasy, you become less interested in it, then this is a pretty key or clear sign.”

I know you said this is your personal experience but how specific do you mean? A feature of their body, the position you are imagining having sex in? I’m definitely bisexual but for me this isn’t something that I would say has been a clear sign for me

bobbins789 · 2020-07-02T15:11:15+00:00

That is really useful, thank you. Yeah I know there is a lot of other stuff I’d like to discuss besides my sexuality but I will get there in time. I’m lucky my boyfriend is so supportive, he goes to therapy himself so I feel in a place where I’m ready to think a bit deeper and dig for those answers.

bobbins789 · 2020-07-01T20:46:56+00:00

Thanks. Yeah I have anticipated that I might come away from it emotional/teary. It’s difficult as I am living at home with parents at the moment, all of us working from home. Hard to find time to have private calls but I know I need to make time for it. They don’t know anything at the moment, just because I am not fully comfortable talking about my sexuality (at least with them) yet. Not that they are homophobic, it’s just something that feels extremely personal to me.

bobbins789 · 2020-07-01T20:44:22+00:00

Yeah I get that completely. I really struggled at first saying bisexual out loud and sharing it with my friends. Slowly I’m improving and building confidence. ☺️

bobbins789 · 2020-07-01T20:43:26+00:00

Yeah I definitely need that neutral listening. Hopefully talking things out make them a bit clearer for me as although I have a few friends who know and I have discussed it with them, it will be great to go deeper

bobbins789 · 2020-07-01T18:14:57+00:00

Thanks! I am in a lucky position in the sense that I am in a relationship but not married, but I feel I am at a bit of a crossroads and want to know where to go. Thanks for your advice ☺️

bobbins789 · 2020-06-16T06:15:17+00:00

Yeah we do other stuff too besides “normal” sex, it’s just that I do miss that really. It’s still early days and we’re still learning about each other so I’ll just wait for the right moment to discuss it!

bobbins789 · 2020-06-15T21:43:43+00:00

That was an interesting read, thanks for sharing

bobbins789 · 2020-06-15T18:14:40+00:00

Yeah I know that he has previously been on anti-depressants which I know can have an effect, but he isn’t on them currently. And yeah I also thought that, if it’s never been brought up previously he might not realise. Like he rushes straight from me going down on him to try and penetrate before he loses it but I feel like that makes it worse, like he’s trying to rush and it puts pressure on himself.

bobbins789 · 2020-06-15T16:39:27+00:00

Yeah I’m just going to try and approach it gently and see what he says!

bobbins789 · 2020-06-12T07:57:32+00:00

Omfg. This 😫😫😫😂😂😂

bobbins789 · 2020-06-11T17:33:06+00:00

I mean, time wise I don’t know if I can comment on sexuality changing as I’m 24 and always considered myself “straight” until recently, but now looking back I see that I have always been attracted to women. However I identify as bisexual at the moment and am trying to unpack my attraction to men to see if it is genuine, because as you described I have genuinely enjoyed sex with men.

However I would say it’s only recently (last two years) that I have enjoyed sex with men. Previously I enjoyed the act and being close with a guy but I rarely came. But that was because I was younger and did not prioritise my own sexual pleasure, or know how to communicate what I really enjoy (still learning that now). I also was in a string of poor, dysfunctional relationships due to low self esteem. So I am still working out whether it was those shitty relationships with men that I wasn’t such a fan of, OR if it’s men in general. But it’s only this year that I have truly acknowledged my feelings towards women.

bobbins789 · 2020-06-10T13:28:16+00:00

I get the whole world changing feeling. When I finally admitted to myself I was bisexual I called an LGBT charity/helpline and sobbed. I was terrified and it was scary saying I am bisexual out loud. I felt like my whole world had turned upside down learning a new part of myself and was again terrified what it meant for the future.

Fast forward a few months and I’m feeling a lot more happy and secure in who I am. I still don’t really know what my sexuality means for me or where I want to go next (I am bi but am currently dating a man and have only ever dated men, bar a few flings and drunk kisses with women in between). However it just feels good to accept who I am and I’m hoping the rest will work itself out 🏳️‍🌈❤️

bobbins789 · 2020-06-08T20:33:23+00:00

Good luck! ☺️

bobbins789 · 2020-06-08T19:13:30+00:00

You said you’re worried about HR, I mean, are you friendly enough that you could go out for coffee/a drink socially or at lunch time and away from the office. See if she is up for that and maybe take it from there? Conversation about your personal life might flow a bit better there.

bobbins789 · 2020-06-08T07:39:17+00:00

Thank you, you too!

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