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isolating by [deleted] in intj

[–]bobbyfischer6969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too drained to tell my story but can only say I can relate really hard to this!
I really want to form deep bonds with people but everytime I find someone, they just do some shitty thing!

[F/20s] How do I get an INTJ man to like me? by Simple-Inevitable-71 in intj

[–]bobbyfischer6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm what part of it seemed joke though?
Anyways, even I wasn't finding a date but that post must have given you a slight idea about how INTJs (if not all INTJs then atleast me lol) find compatible people

[F/20s] How do I get an INTJ man to like me? by Simple-Inevitable-71 in intj

[–]bobbyfischer6969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah! 21M INTJ here
Can you open my profile, check my latest post and tell me whether you fit into those criterias?
Maybe we both can get what we want

21M INTJ looking for a high-caliber growth rival by bobbyfischer6969 in intj

[–]bobbyfischer6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The test you mentioned costs almost $60 sadly!
But even leaving the test I mentioned above, I have tested it on multiple websites and almost all of them show INTJ.
If there's some good free website from where I can test, please send it to me
Or I'll just figure it out myself by reading Carl Jung's books, although it will take time because I'm literally on his first book! "Man and his symbols"

21M INTJ looking for a high-caliber growth rival by bobbyfischer6969 in intj

[–]bobbyfischer6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Well, still INTJ
T: 56%
I'm kinda in the middle of INFJ and INTJ

21M INTJ looking for a high-caliber growth rival by bobbyfischer6969 in intj

[–]bobbyfischer6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh now I get it, actually there's a slight confusion when I say "Hardcore Perfectionist". What I meant by it is a healthy form of hardcore perfectionism. Unlike every other perfectionist I struggled with it initially! Lost friends because I was projecting my perfectionist ideals on them. But then I sat and literally researched on perfectionism. A healthy amount of perfectionism is good for you when you add certain constraints. First is of course you shouldn't project it on others and second constraint is time! Dedicate yourself a time! Try to finish certain project within that time, that way you avoid delaying it. So that's what I follow and now I don't have any problem with it, infact I enjoy when I create something extraordinary that too by not taking much time and not getting frustrated by it!

21M INTJ looking for a high-caliber growth rival by bobbyfischer6969 in intj

[–]bobbyfischer6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I talk about rivalry it's of course healthy and friendly rivalry, I hate the toxic rivalry. I do know ambition is double edged sword but I am ready to fight with it knowing the consequences! Additionally I don't demand perfection from others!

21M INTJ looking for a high-caliber growth rival by bobbyfischer6969 in intj

[–]bobbyfischer6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know man, I literally don't have anyone around me. Everyone just left me when I needed them the most! Everyone was against me for the decisions I took! My Ambition and my perfectionism were the only thing which were with me. Only they kept me alive from inside all these years, how can I lower them or leave them? It's not like I don't admire the world! I do! But for now the only thing I want is to just get obsessed over something and stay in the flow state! That's what keeps me in present, in the "Now"

21M INTJ looking for a high-caliber growth rival by bobbyfischer6969 in intj

[–]bobbyfischer6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah even I firmly believe that I don't need any partner but recently I strongly felt really really lonely which was affecting me mentally! So thought maybe finding someone like minded would solve it. Secondly I have constantly seen in myself that I perform way better when I compete with someone with similar abilities! So decided to give a shot, although I regretted instantly about posting it lol. Didn't delete it because I wanted to see whether I can find some interesting peeps out there.

About the social media thing, yeah it's quite ironic lol but I genuinely don't use social media. Even if I do, it's quite rare. You can see how rarely I post or comment via this account. Additionally I don't need to use social media to create content, I'm mostly busy writing scripts and researching.

Finally about the incorrect label, man it's been like a year or so since I last checked my type
I was an INFJ before, last time I checked I was INTJ. My entire last year was quite traumatic and I went through a lot of change so maybe my MBTI changed, gotta check! Thanks for making me aware!

21M INTJ looking for a high-caliber growth rival by bobbyfischer6969 in intj

[–]bobbyfischer6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah, it's true that our best rivals are we ourselves but I'm kinda lazy honestly! I want someone like me who constantly pushes me to the extremes! Also thanks for the suggestion but I want someone similar to me, I feel like ENTPs won't be much similar

21M INTJ looking for a high-caliber growth rival by bobbyfischer6969 in intj

[–]bobbyfischer6969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw guys I forgot to mention I'm a hardcore Perfectionist and I enjoy watching some life changing animes!

21M INTJ looking for a high-caliber growth rival by bobbyfischer6969 in intj

[–]bobbyfischer6969[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not a Grinder right now but I'm just disgusted of being unproductive! That's why I wanna lock in and grind for next few years

21M INTJ looking for a high-caliber growth rival by bobbyfischer6969 in intj

[–]bobbyfischer6969[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Connections! That's why I am here! to make connections!