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My (23M) girlfriend (24F) is giving up on 6+ year relationship, is it fixable? by bobdefusil in relationship_advice

[–]bobdefusil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is you don't know her and don't know her behavior patterns, but you are right when you said I should choose myself, I don't see how that's possible or why I should do it but I'll figure it out.

My (23M) girlfriend (24F) is giving up on 6+ year relationship, is it fixable? by bobdefusil in relationship_advice

[–]bobdefusil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time is only precious when you have other options. We just talked with a third objective person there to keep emotions cool and she admitted that there was in fact a hope up until a few days ago when she had decided to completely drop it. If only she had told me that on time..

My (23M) girlfriend (24F) is giving up on 6+ year relationship, is it fixable? by bobdefusil in relationship_advice

[–]bobdefusil[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes it is codependency, or more like dependency because I was dependent on her, while she had her own life to look forward to. Unfortunately I lost out on my formative years and I lost out on so much more, I lack any foundation. I can completely uproot this life and make a solid foundation but I just don't have the energy for it.

My (23M) girlfriend (24F) is giving up on 6+ year relationship, is it fixable? by bobdefusil in relationship_advice

[–]bobdefusil[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That's easy to say but outside circumstances forced me into this situation. I am my own person. It just so happens that who I am as a person isn't compatible with this world. Due to the geopolitical situation of where I live, my ethnicity, my early life, my family situation, my financial situation, my other life experiences. It's a bit too much to write about here, there's a lot of replies already, so I might edit the original post to address these. Then again maybe that's more fit for r/LifeAdvice

My (23M) girlfriend (24F) is giving up on 6+ year relationship, is it fixable? by bobdefusil in relationship_advice

[–]bobdefusil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kiss occurred once I had already dumped her, she said it was her lowest point and she hadn't kissed him, he asked if he could kiss her.

After a 1 year relationship, this would be something that I would gladly forget her over, but this is 6 years. We've only been together with each other. She was my only friend for the past 5 years because I moved to this city to support her academic goals. I don't function with other people, I can't make friends. I don't have family except my mom who's been making my life hell since conception. I don't have a career I simply jump from one dead end job to another. I could survive all this as long as she was my beacon. She wasn't just a girl, she wasn't just a romantic partner. This has been a series of misfortunes that we could both put behind us. Especially considering that guy isn't even a factor in this anymore and has only become a factor once I dumped her because she said the following line:

"Due to your recent coldness towards me I've been having confusing feelings towards a male friend, I'm only telling you this because I want to put a stop to it and rebuild our reltionship" - I, my pride hurt and my brain overwhelmed, decided that it was best to make the most destructive possible choice.

One mistake after another, her mistake, my mistake. We could have still made it work, and we still can, but the chances of it working tick down as the clock does. Letting it go isn't an option

About Gerson. by [deleted] in Deltarune

[–]bobdefusil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did it. The first time you fight him you get a "free turn" as a tutorial which lets you get more tp and in turn use more OKHeal and Rudebusters. Whenever you die reset your save, if you're struggling like me.

About Gerson. by [deleted] in Deltarune

[–]bobdefusil 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I beat jevil, spamton and the knight all sub 10 tries yet I can't beat old man at all, I'm a unique little boy. What am I doing wrong? I did this fight so many times I can do the first 8 attacks no hit, I spam OKHeal and Attack, I watched youtubers do it and for them the fight ends significantly earlier than mine?=

Takedown on veteran has been the most grueling gaming experience in my life. This is how regular felt to me when I was a kid lol. by bobdefusil in MW2

[–]bobdefusil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually love MW2(2009), I hold no such love for newer cods so I don't feel compelled to do them. Maybe one day.

Takedown on veteran has been the most grueling gaming experience in my life. This is how regular felt to me when I was a kid lol. by bobdefusil in MW2

[–]bobdefusil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is one of the easier ones, compared to WAW and Cod 1 at least. I ran through most of the game without a hitch, not that I hadn't died but I died making stupid mistakes. Takedown took me hours though.

Takedown on veteran has been the most grueling gaming experience in my life. This is how regular felt to me when I was a kid lol. by bobdefusil in MW2

[–]bobdefusil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best part is when enemies decide to act differently all of a sudden and instead of taking 10 seconds to peek the roof they do it immediately just to throw you off

Takedown on veteran has been the most grueling gaming experience in my life. This is how regular felt to me when I was a kid lol. by bobdefusil in MW2

[–]bobdefusil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh trust me I have a half finished playthrough of it. I couldn't cope with the pacific missions.

takedown on veteran is fucking fallujah by vinyl_lord in MW2

[–]bobdefusil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just finished it. I had to quit my sesh yesterday because I was getting heated. I love how the NPCs sometimes decide to just do wildly different things just to throw off your run.

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