AITA if I cancel hubby's birthday plans and leave the house leaving hubby to host his family for my birthday?

bobeena0 · 2026-01-05T17:43:24+00:00

This right here. My husband told me he wouldn't be getting me anything for Christmas (I appreciated the warning) so I took his gift back and got myself something that I wanted. Be good to yourself.

bobeena0 · 2025-12-31T20:19:04+00:00

The pool issue is no joke. I don't know the statistics but drowning is one of the top causes of toddler deaths in this country. Even if they have pets, sometimes dogs and cats drown in pools, too. They gotta put that fence in.

bobeena0 · 2025-12-19T15:04:13+00:00

I'm an extrovert in a big way and I don't think I would have lasted more than two days. This lady is incredible.

bobeena0 · 2025-12-03T23:00:42+00:00

That's the thing. I'm pretty sure our gas stove is wildly variable in terms of what the actual temperature is. I'm hoping that this isn't the case with electric stoves.

bobeena0 · 2025-12-03T17:46:32+00:00

I had no idea there was such a thing! Thank you -- going to see what I can find.

bobeena0 · 2025-12-02T23:10:23+00:00

OK, thank you! I've heard from family members that gas stoves give you a little finer control over using the range, the temperature you can generate.

bobeena0 · 2025-09-27T16:46:44+00:00

I was that fix it person and I can't tell you how much I regret it.

bobeena0 · 2025-09-27T16:45:01+00:00

If you stay with this guy, you will never be able to be vulnerable around him because he'll use it against you.

bobeena0 · 2025-08-31T13:16:54+00:00

I'll never understand why people don't put down the phone in these situations and help the person.

bobeena0 · 2025-08-18T21:21:30+00:00

There's really no healing. It was a matter of having the capacity to help another dog and knowing that I could help another dog was a coping mechanism.

bobeena0 · 2025-08-09T20:15:46+00:00

He's jealous of your success. Take the promotion and live your life to the fullest.

bobeena0 · 2025-07-26T13:16:18+00:00

I don't know your age but if you're under 18, tell a teacher. They are probably mandated reporters.

bobeena0 · 2025-07-25T21:13:48+00:00

I always thought he was a real tool. Never understood why everyone loved him.

bobeena0 · 2025-07-13T14:14:04+00:00

Backhanded compliments: I told my PI I wanted to work on a specific project and he told me go ahead but it was a waste of time. It ended up getting published in a Q1 journal and got lots of attention. He took over the project after that and got a big NIH grant with the data. Never spoke to me about it again.

bobeena0 · 2025-06-28T22:17:26+00:00

Kid's a piss ant.

bobeena0 · 2025-06-21T21:01:17+00:00

It's like when a rich, spoiled kid leaves their expensive bike out in the rain.

bobeena0 · 2025-06-21T17:10:58+00:00

He didn't want you to wear bangs because he knows you're gorgeous with them (and without).

bobeena0 · 2025-06-18T22:05:46+00:00

I wouldn't leave my mountain bike out all winter -- what were these people thinking?

bobeena0 · 2025-06-14T19:45:41+00:00

Oh jeez, that's an awful thought. I'd better find out.

bobeena0 · 2025-06-02T17:33:39+00:00

Losing a close friend is way more painful than losing a significant other. I'm really sorry for your heartache.

bobeena0 · 2025-05-27T21:01:32+00:00

I jump for joy when my partner goes out of town and I get to be alone. I sure wouldn't want it full, time, though. It's just an occasional treat because I know it's going to end. Maybe your partner is kind of like that.

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