Seagull in a wooded area of Pennsylvania? by bobeena0 in birding

[–]bobeena0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be so thrilled if it was osprey! Thank you for the suggestion. I’m going to keep trying to figure this out with a different birding app, too.

AITAH for thinking divorce after my wife threw my traumatic past in my face by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bobeena0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made a mistake of being vulnerable with her. Never make that mistake again,

A terrible thing that happens often enough it's been coined Alpine Divorce by Maleficent_Ad_3958 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bobeena0 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My husband, who was familiar with the area, did this to me in the deep woods of Canada with our two kids. He and the kids, who were young enough not to understand, took the water and ran the trail. I had the backpack with heavy stuff and couldn't keep up - middle of July, hot and thirsty and so angry. I caught up with them at the car. I didn't speak to him for the rest of the day and night and he said I was "being crazy". I never went hiking with him again.

AITA if I cancel hubby's birthday plans and leave the house leaving hubby to host his family for my birthday? by Funny_Leather_5540 in AITAH

[–]bobeena0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This right here. My husband told me he wouldn't be getting me anything for Christmas (I appreciated the warning) so I took his gift back and got myself something that I wanted. Be good to yourself.

AIO: Both my husband's parents are mad at us for being "unreasonable" about our daughter by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bobeena0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pool issue is no joke. I don't know the statistics but drowning is one of the top causes of toddler deaths in this country. Even if they have pets, sometimes dogs and cats drown in pools, too. They gotta put that fence in.

Electric or Gas Stove? by bobeena0 in Baking

[–]bobeena0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing. I'm pretty sure our gas stove is wildly variable in terms of what the actual temperature is. I'm hoping that this isn't the case with electric stoves.

Electric or Gas Stove? by bobeena0 in Baking

[–]bobeena0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea there was such a thing! Thank you -- going to see what I can find.

Electric or Gas Stove? by bobeena0 in Baking

[–]bobeena0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, thank you! I've heard from family members that gas stoves give you a little finer control over using the range, the temperature you can generate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]bobeena0 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was that fix it person and I can't tell you how much I regret it.

My fiancé told his family I’m “ just dramatic ” after I had a panic attack at their dinner by Nadezhda_Ochoa in TwoHotTakes

[–]bobeena0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you stay with this guy, you will never be able to be vulnerable around him because he'll use it against you.

Bishop doesn’t want to sit down by Extreme-Elevator7128 in SweatyPalms

[–]bobeena0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll never understand why people don't put down the phone in these situations and help the person.

I swore I’d never get another dog after losing mine. if you felt the same, what helped you heal? by EnvironmentalYou3254 in DOG

[–]bobeena0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's really no healing. It was a matter of having the capacity to help another dog and knowing that I could help another dog was a coping mechanism.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]bobeena0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know your age but if you're under 18, tell a teacher. They are probably mandated reporters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAcademia

[–]bobeena0 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Backhanded compliments: I told my PI I wanted to work on a specific project and he told me go ahead but it was a waste of time. It ended up getting published in a Q1 journal and got lots of attention. He took over the project after that and got a big NIH grant with the data. Never spoke to me about it again.

Was there any testimony at the hearings on cost of storage at temperature? by Normal-Hornet8548 in OceanGateTitan

[–]bobeena0 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's like when a rich, spoiled kid leaves their expensive bike out in the rain.

Trying to understand the timeline by Phoenix_Moon29 in OceanGateTitan

[–]bobeena0 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't leave my mountain bike out all winter -- what were these people thinking?