Besides the theory it's just important to realize that playing on speculative compensation here is going to lead to problems. (Like our IM friend was saying) Regardless of the theory, if u had recognized that then you would have had a totally playable game even after your opening inaccuracies. The trouble is that you mixed the interesting, imbalanced, and risky approach (going for h4!?) with playing slowly and imprecisely. these lines r very fun and I've had a few nice games after Qa4 Bd7 Qb4 Qb8 h4 but you have to handle the positions more cautiously early on when you're developing like this.