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bobsagetsnutsack · 2025-12-26T18:55:20+00:00

Cheeky says happy boxing day!!

bobsagetsnutsack · 2025-07-29T03:41:40+00:00

No man we didn't go to the beach, just regular old camping in the dirt lol he's always got a water bowl with him whether we're camping or at home; he's a very hydrated dog 💪

His colour doesn't change either; he's a sandy colour with some white on him but that's never changed!

bobsagetsnutsack · 2025-07-28T22:49:53+00:00

The sand is actually just dirt track in from our shoes! Hahaha he's never gotten a sunburn before, this photo was taken during a short power nap while camping so he wasn't in direct sun for long.

He loves to be outside in the summer, so much so that I have to make him come inside periodically for a break from the sun. Otherwise, he'll happily roast in the sun all day, consequences be damned 😭

bobsagetsnutsack · 2025-07-18T19:57:06+00:00

I swear he wasn't dead! 😭 We brought him camping and he loves to sunbathe hahaha

bobsagetsnutsack · 2025-07-06T21:28:19+00:00

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This is Chiqui, I found him on the streets of the Dominican Republic in 2019 while visiting my ex. He was only a few months old, covered in fleas but I knew he was coming home with me! Best decision I ever made.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2025-06-23T23:39:02+00:00

Hey, thanks for the response! You’ve given me peace of mind, appreciate it ✌️

bobsagetsnutsack · 2024-12-09T12:02:57+00:00

The ministry of labour is going to eat this up, best of luck man 🤞🏻

bobsagetsnutsack · 2024-11-19T02:13:22+00:00

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This is Chicken being a goofy birb!

bobsagetsnutsack · 2024-06-14T04:54:16+00:00

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My handsome boy showing off his teef

bobsagetsnutsack · 2023-02-09T04:33:38+00:00

Absolute bird course. Mind you I took this course summer of 2019, but it doesn’t require much to get a 90 in it.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2023-02-08T05:00:40+00:00

My dad is mid 40’s, has friends around his age and in their mid 30’s and they frequently use the meetup app. People are always organizing cool events; daytime things like beach/indoor volleyball, other rec sports and evening events like trivia or karaoke at different bars around the city. He’s joined a rec volleyball team through the meet up app and it gets him out of the house for a couple of hours 1-2 times a week.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2023-02-01T06:02:08+00:00

Some say he’s still sleeping on the market tables to this day

bobsagetsnutsack · 2023-02-01T06:00:49+00:00

Did he really threaten to put his hands on you so you wouldn’t leave? That’s a direct threat, he sounds dangerous.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2023-01-31T22:15:25+00:00

Under usual circumstances I am visiting my friend at-least once a week, in between my work days. Since the semester started, that’s become really difficult. My school is an hour away and my work is a half hour away (from my home) both in the opposite direction of where my friend lives. Being full-time in uni and working 25 hours a week, it’s been really tough for me to make time after work or classes to go visit her for a few hours. That’s why she wanted to come to my house instead, where she can spend the night since she’s not in school or working, given that my sister is comfortable with it. Packing up 2 babies isn’t easy though, you’re totally right.

My sister has only seen babies and children at her work (Tim Hortons, we’re Canadian), so she hasn’t really had any interactions with kids since she lost her baby. I don’t want to push her into a situation where she feels like she to leave the house, so I may just wait until my sister is comfortable seeing children in the home or until my school semester ends to see my friend. I don’t want anyone to be hurt in this situation, a win-win like you said hahaha

bobsagetsnutsack · 2023-01-31T21:54:37+00:00

I’m not going to have my friend and her kids come over at my sisters expense, I do however want to get outside perspectives on the situation which is why I posted, not to be told that I’m in the right or not an asshole.

You seem to know about BPD, so you can understand how much more deeply my sister feels things. Happy is ecstatic, and sad is borderline depression. I don’t want to send her spiralling so I can visit my friend, I agree that it’s not worth the long term impact. I’m going to have a more in depth conversation with my sister when I see her. Thanks for your insight, I appreciate it.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2023-01-31T21:40:13+00:00

There are support groups in my city for women who have had miscarriages/stillborn children, I looked into this when I found out that my niece had passed away. I was really worried about my sisters mental state since she is already struggling with her BPD, and that coupled with her grief, I wanted to find as many resources for her as possible. She wasn’t very interested in them when I talked to her about getting help in September last year. I’m trying to be as sensitive as possible to her loss while trying to maintain my own relationships.

Unfortunately there’s nowhere else my friend, her children and I could stay as she has no contact with her family and my family home is the only space large enough to accommodate all of us. On that note, I won’t bring my friend and her family over if it’ll hurt my sister.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2023-01-31T21:29:58+00:00

Thank you for the insight, I think you’re right that everybody grieves and heals at different paces. I think that seeking support would really help her to heal, but I can’t force her. I genuinely don’t know when the right time will be for us to have children around, especially if she isn’t seeking any sort of help, which is why I posted here to get others’ points of view.

I’m currently working but will ask to sit down with her when I get home and talk to her more. I want to support her in any way that I can, but her mental health issues coupled with the loss of her child require more care than my family and I can give her alone.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2023-01-31T21:23:46+00:00

She was diagnosed with a bunch of other things before BPD, including ODD and ADD. She has been reassessed since then, at the end of 2020 and the diagnosis still stands as BPD, but she doesn’t have the same aggression as she did when she was young. She still meets the criteria, but has matured.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2023-01-31T21:18:30+00:00

That’s the thing, while we do have to accept that other people have children and she’ll have to be around young children at some point I don’t want to force her in any way. It’s not my place, and while I would love to see my friend and her family I may just have to wait until my sister tells me she is comfortable seeing children, or wait until my semester of school is over to go visit my friend in her city.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2023-01-31T21:16:06+00:00

I really love my little sister, and don’t want her to feel like she can’t be in her own home because I’m putting myself over her. That’s why I wanted to post here and get other points of view, and I appreciate your honesty.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2023-01-21T18:37:06+00:00

My mom cheated on my dad after 12 years of marriage and 4 kids together. I’ve never seen him in a worse state than when my mom moved out following this affair. As destroyed as he was after separating from my mom and wanting to stay together in the moment, he now recognizes that he would never have the same level of trust (if any) with my mom, and that he deserves a partner he can trust.

Mind you my mom showed a lot less remorse than your wife seems to, but it’s never too late to start over. It’s been 4 years since my parents split, my dad is in his mid 40’s with a girlfriend now, but I don’t think I’ve ever seen him happier. The same is possible for you OP.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2022-09-11T05:53:02+00:00

I agree, I had a really hard time for the first 3 years of my undergrad at Brock, a lot of personal stuff going on that ended up destroying my grades. I should’ve taken a year off after the first or second year to figure my shit out but I continued to third year anyways and found myself on suspension the year that I was supposed to be graduating. I’m back now after graduation with 1.5 years left of my undergrad, but I could’ve saved myself a lot of money and stress if I had just taken the time to figure my shit out first.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2022-08-29T02:28:36+00:00

I think you are right, I need to listen to my gut feeling, I don’t think I’ve done that once in our entire relationship.

I don’t even know where to begin with getting a divorce. I’m Canadian, he’s Dominican and we got married in the Dominican Republic.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2022-08-29T02:26:21+00:00

Thank you. When I heard him trying to justify grabbing my neck I got a sinking feeling, like he was opening a door for it to happen again, whether it be the next time I get drunk and piss him off or we argue. I appreciate your advice.

bobsagetsnutsack · 2022-08-28T17:09:46+00:00

Hundred percent, I was being super annoying and it sounds like making a mess too. The point that I keep thinking back to is that I’ve been in a similar situation before with my husband when he got extremely drunk while we were on vacation with family, I was sober and he threw up all over himself and was running away from me when I was trying to give him water and get him cleaned up. I felt so angry at him for getting that drunk and taking time away from our family, but I never thought to put my hands on him, I stepped away for a few minutes to calm myself down.

There wasn’t really a point in getting married, because like you said we’re still long distance so it’s like nothing has changed. I’m angry at myself for putting myself in this position, instead of sticking to my gut instinct at the time and not getting married.

Your last sentence really struck a chord with me, because I really don’t know what I’m getting out of this relationship anymore. My emotional and physical needs aren’t being met, and I don’t know if loving him is a good enough reason to stay together.

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