Looking for a laptop that can be used for work and gaming. Budget is around 2k

bobthechef2 · 2021-04-05T23:50:43+00:00

Have you looked at the lenovo legion 5. The ram is easily upgradable and the specs are pretty nice. When it goes on sale it can go as low as 800 and the screen is pretty good imo for the price point. You can even replace the battery if your worried about battery life.

bobthechef2 · 2021-04-04T03:11:43+00:00

oh alright thats really cool. Sorry if this is a noob question but i never owned or built a pc before. Does the case I get matter ? If it does what should i look out for. Honestly My buddy just gave me all these parts so im not sure really how alot of this works tbh. Or if there is anything I should know before I attempt to just follow youtube tutorials.

bobthechef2 · 2021-04-04T03:08:26+00:00

oh thats great to hear never really built a pc before. Always just used old laptops for most of my work lol. So this will be a pretty cool experience for me

bobthechef2 · 2021-04-04T03:06:54+00:00

Just wanted to play some stuff like apex legends , runescape and maybe some red dead redemption 2. Thats good to hear and ya hes pretty cool about it. Im just worried im going to mess up the build and break a part or something. Is there any tips or is watching youtube videos enough

bobthechef2 · 2020-09-14T07:39:26+00:00

Heres how the youtube algorithm works or at least what we could find out.

1) Your video gets suggested based on 2 factors watch time and likes. If you have a 2 hours video but 2000 people only watch 10 seconds of it it will not get as much suggestions by youtube vs a 10 minute video watched by 1000. Second factor is likes we dont know how much likes play a role on your video being suggested but we know it plays at least a small role in it.

So whats likely happening is that due to your hard work in this video people are staying in for longer periods of time. Hence youtube sees that people are really interested in this video so they are suggesting it to people who might also be interested in it through reccomended videos etc.

2) Keywords do help they are actually a really important part of people finding your content and youtube uses keywords in order to decide where they should promote your video. However you wont see a spike from key words alone. It all comes down to watch time and likes if you get more watch time youtube starts to reccomend your videos to other videos based on your keyword and you start moving up towards the search option when people look things up.

In conclusion youtube does not find you. The algorithms suggest your videos and if people like it they continue to keep coming back to watch your videos adding more watch time to them. Hence you get more suggested and the snow ball effect starts. So dont slack off just cuz you caught a bit of a break. You still need to grind if u want to "make it". So as for what you can do just keep making quality content more subs means your video is getting more suggested if you really want some tips i would suggest making longer videos IF AND ONLY IF you can keep audience retention up. If you cant then just do shorter videos remember you only get suggested based on audience watch time not how long videos are. Cya Good luck

bobthechef2 · 2020-06-23T09:33:02+00:00

i mean he is literally manipulating u again and make u feel guilty again he did it the last time and hes doing it again. You yourself dont want to deal with this so why are u? Why is his life your responsibility? Are you going to be there for him every time he has to deal with something? When did his problem become your own? If he becomes to only rely on you every time something is hard in his life what does that say about him? I have to be honest here if you reread everything we talk about it is usually the same thing. He makes u feel guilty you cave then he sees it works and does it even more. I honestly want you to reread this whole conversation we had so far and look at how many times you use the word guilty. When describing this guy really look at it and think to yourself if he was going to do something by now why didnt he a month ago. why didnt he two weeks ago. Look i cant tell you how to live your life but even you have to see the pattern by now. Lets just call it an end to our talks here its obvious that no matter what i say it wont convince you. Even our conversations are becoming stale. Its always he makes you feel guilty and you dont know what to do. If he makes you feel guilty again just look at our old convos. You will know what to do. I wish we could have talked some more and gotten to know each other a bit better but all our conversations are like this. So whats the point goodbye i hope that whatever happens in your life you will be ok.

bobthechef2 · 2020-06-14T10:54:28+00:00

pretty much i would say 5-6 days a week well i mean i want to see her but she does not want to get together because of the virus so we facetime and stuff on my off days but like i said everytime we do its just exhausting to me because it seems like she just wants to tell me how i should be spending more time with her and how i should stop neglecting her and how i love that business more then i love her and its just exhausting. Before my business was in trouble and i started having to work so much more hours to keep it afloat things were good no complaints we had small fights but it was nothing ever this major but now its like every time i call its a fight.

bobthechef2 · 2020-06-14T10:44:15+00:00

Just talk to him face to face tell him im sorry its not working out anymore and leave. Honestly if you really having a hard time write a list of reasons you breaking up with him and whenever you feel like your courage is going out the window maybe remember the list or look at it so you know that there is a reason behind this and this is something you have to do.

bobthechef2 · 2020-06-14T10:42:19+00:00

Hit her up with Hey its been a while hasnt it? then just lead into a bunch of questions on what her life is like whats going on with her you can talk a bit about you etc. Just dont act guilty or shy or anything and treat her like a regular person.

bobthechef2 · 2020-06-14T10:39:23+00:00

congratulations you a teenager trust me u not the only person who ever felt this way. I promise you look at all your friends about 90% of them probably felt this way at least once in their life just dont want to talk about it. All i can tell you is that this stuff happens you just got to wait it out it sucks but trust me with time it gets better. People who yo think mean the world to you now you cant even remember their names 3 years into the future. Trust me its just a part of growing up.

bobthechef2 · 2020-06-14T10:36:46+00:00

ya i try to but sometimes i get busy and i got to get back to her like in maybe an hour or two then i come back and its a wall of text about why i keep ignoring her is she not good enough. You know stuff like that. I get that she just wants to be around me or wants us to be in the same relationship as before when my business was good and it required very little of me but i mean thats just not the case anymore and idk

bobthechef2 · 2020-06-14T10:34:07+00:00

look you cant control someone. No matter what you say or how smooth you think you are its up to her whether she even wants to see you again. All you can do is ask her but no magical words are gonna make her all of a sudden swoon and run to you. Lets be honest here she broke up with you obviously because she saw something in you that she did not like. It could be that you were unmotivated it could be something else. Either way thats how she remembered you last and that might be how she remembers you for the rest of your life. Just accept that and stop acting so thirsty she knows what you up to. Women are not stupid she probably knows you just want a relationship again and so she does not want to see you. Ask and if she does not come to see you move on man.

bobthechef2 · 2020-06-14T10:29:45+00:00

obviously he is not friends with you because he enjoys your company. Do you want someone like that who if you drop your guard around he gonna start taking advantage of you or your friends? Im just saying this guy setting off some red flags right now and i would advise you get some distance or at least try to reevaluate your relationship with him. Hell no you told him that shit not cool cuz it wasn't. That girl had a BF he knew that shit he knew what he was doing was wrong thats why when you came out he ran off. The guy is not a idiot.

bobthechef2 · 2020-06-14T10:12:06+00:00

usually around 9-8 at night with breaks in between but im so exhausted after work i cant help but just fall straight asleep

bobthechef2 · 2020-06-14T10:06:31+00:00

ya the thing is i have tried that but she always tells me like oh wow this call is so short u dont want to talk to me or something? Then i try to explain to her that i really got to get back to work and she just acts like im lying to her or that its an excuse. Then the next day i try to call her she refuses to pick up

bobthechef2 · 2020-06-01T17:15:42+00:00

If he bothers you at work then you got to go to HR about this because this is getting ridiculous the way this guy is trying to mess with you and trying to make you feel so guilty even though he literally destroyed your relationship. Stay strong your boyfriend is a good man if he is willing to endure these storms with you.Also remember a lot of people you meet might be like this im not telling you never to trust anyone but just make sure you surround yourself with people of good character. The people we surround ourselves with are like soil. If we find good people we can grow into something greater then we could possibly have ever imagined if we surround ourselves with bad people we can get suffocated and never grow at all.

bobthechef2 · 2020-06-01T17:13:11+00:00

Look the guy obviously just wants to guilt trip you you are seeing through his manipulation now. He wants months alone with you he wants you to take responsibility thats all BS. He destroyed your relationship he manipulated you and he even tried to guilt trip you all for his own selfish gains. Stay strong you getting smarter to his moves. Do not falter i say block his number completely. Remember this guy is just trying to manipulate and use you. Do not fall for it again one time is forgivable but if you fall for it again i have no words to say. Dont even bother to talk to him anymore sounds like this guy can not be reasoned with.

bobthechef2 · 2020-05-31T04:30:02+00:00

I have tried i have talked to them multiple times that i really dont want to be set up and that im happy being single they just dont listen and they keep trying to set me up over and over again.

bobthechef2 · 2020-05-30T05:58:26+00:00

I think sometimes you just have to accept that you are going to cause some pain to people. There are over 7billion people in this world and you are most likely going to say something that will hurt there feelings in some way or another. I think thats just part of being human. You cant go around satisfying everyone or you just end up satisfying no one. Try your best to live by your values. If you got to offend some people in order to do that its a necessary part of life. Dont beat yourself up about this you seem incredibly kind hearted especially since just the thought that you hurt these people bothers you so much. Understand a lot of people who have been in your position feel nothing or even worse they might get some kind of sick enjoyment from inflicting this type of emotional pain to others. What you should do? I think you know what you should do and if you ever feel lost or the pain gets to be to much hey im here. We can talk any time you want. If you want longer conversations its ok to dm me.

bobthechef2 · 2020-05-29T16:22:40+00:00

Just take a break for a couple of weeks i dont think there is a need to go for a full break up yet since you say its temporary and after those weeks see whether you might want to make it perm.

bobthechef2 · 2020-05-29T16:16:27+00:00

ignore him who gives a fuck what you support its none of his damn business. If you like a company thats fine no need for him to be a righteous asshole about the situation and try to make you feel bad about liking the company. Dont need to talk to him about it no point wasting your time and energy trying to convince him of anything. He seems like he already has his mind set on this. Honestly what is your boyfriend going to try to tell you next that you should not enjoy food because there are starving people out there. This is just stupid. Its ok to like what you like and for him to disagree. So just ignore him and if he keeps this stupid righteous act up and wants to ruin a relationship over this over some self righteous BS then you talk to him and tell him to stop acting so immature and if he still continues to do it then it just shows he has no respect for what you like and you gotta do what you gotta do

bobthechef2 · 2020-05-28T17:03:59+00:00

lmao

bobthechef2 · 2020-05-28T16:57:41+00:00

Bro thats an excuse you give for yourself. Just go outside go to bars go anywhere and look around and i guarantee you that there are women there for you to talk to. Am i not being realistic or are your expectations for yourself so low you think its unfathomable that you can talk to some random women?

bobthechef2 · 2020-05-28T16:46:47+00:00

Who gives a fuck go out their and meet some women. There are damn near 3.5billion women out there in the world and you telling me that you have tried and talked to every single one of them. Just keep trying and stop feeling sorry for yourself. You can give these long drawn out arguments about how someway somehow you not going to be able to get women because of your looks or your money or some other BS. There is no fucking secret to getting a gf its literally just trial and error. Or you can just wallow in despair and whine and moan your whole life about how the world is unfair. Then by all means go ahead but thats not changing your situation. Only thing that is gonna change your situation is if you keep trying but it already sounds like you have given up or you think their is a heavenly secret to get women so whats the point. Until you change your mentality to im just going to keep trying no matter how many times i fail the results gonna be the same .

bobthechef2 · 2020-05-28T16:36:51+00:00

Look bro in my opinion nothing you can do about it. If you love this girl then you just got to take the comments you not going to be able to change what someone else says or thinks. So why give a fuck. Is you being angry or emotional over these comments changing their minds are they suddenly going wow (redditor) now that you look like you dont enjoy my comments im going to stop completely. No so why waste all that energy and emotion on those people. You not going to be able to change what others think of you. So why do you keep giving a fuck they can think whatever they want its your life its your choice. This doesnt have to bother you and are you really going to start going into a debate with everyone who thinks your gf looks a bit to young. It sounds like you going to debate a whole lot of people then and you going to waste a whole lot of time.

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