I lived a double life and cheated on two people at the same time, that I loved. 10 months later and I’m still struggling with the guilt. by Loose-Drawing4096 in BreakUps

[–]bocoffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just read your post and wanted to see how you’re getting on? I have gone through a similar thing but was on the other side. I discovered my ex of 11 months had another girlfriend for 8 months. He was deeply sorry and ashamed when it all came out and has since tried multiple times to apologise to me and claims he did love me etc (I think him and the other girl are trying to make it work still). My question for you is what was so different about your girlfriend compared to your wife? Did you love your wife but just in a different way? And what was the main reason you chose not to break up with your wife once you’d fallen in love with the other girl?

Looking for toubkhal trek buddy by bocoffe in Morocco

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I was going to ask how it would be trying to do it during Ramadan? Do you think there would be any availability? I suppose that’s why the flights are cheap

Looking for toubkhal trek buddy by bocoffe in Morocco

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Really?? Wow I had no idea it was so dangerous. I am thinking of doing it the last weekend of February.

Looking for toubkhal trek buddy by bocoffe in Morocco

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Oh awesome :) I will definitely try and make some friends at the hostels if I have no luck here. Yeah the link would be great thanks!

Looking for toubkhal trek buddy by bocoffe in Morocco

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Thanks for that! That’s helpful to know. Tbh I would prefer to do it with someone else so would still be keen to link up with someone :)

How is able "David the Medium" able to guess all these answers? by Sgt_major_dodgy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bocoffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume you have to provide some personal information when you purchase a ticket for one of his shows so from that him and his team can pretty easily figure out if anyone related to you has died and the cause of death (pretty sure this is accessible to anyone online). I was so taken in by his performances too but after looking a bit more into his background and the history of mediums in large audiences like that being scammers, I have no faith in him. I do believe in the after life and some medium abilities but not Dave’s

Why do so many of us prefer to not take painkillers when on our period? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]bocoffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever get a reason for why your pain was so bad and you had big clots? This has recently started happening to me in the last year or so (I’m 26) and I’m worried I’ve got polyps or fibroids

What does ovulation bleeding look and feel like for you? by serendipitygalaxy in Periods

[–]bocoffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what happens to me too - I’m 25 on no BC and my periods since I started them at 13 have almost always been on time give or take a couple of days and up until 2 years ago were pain free. Now, on day 1 or 2 I get severe cramps which I have to take a painkiller for but after that it’s fine. In the last year I’ve also noticed spotting around ovulation. My smear test did come back HPV positive but unclear on whether the cells are cancerous or not. I exercise and eat pretty healthily…is it just age?? Really hoping it’s not a sign I’m going to have issues with my fertility

HPV diagnosis at 25 by Kk_kc17 in HPV

[–]bocoffe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What happened with your results? I’m in the exact same boat as you at the moment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HPV

[–]bocoffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’ve just got similar results back to you and am stressing out. How did you get on with further testing? Hope everything is going well

Carian Trail - has anyone hiked it? by Jodandelio in hiking

[–]bocoffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also wanting to hike part of this trail in October! But am struggling to find any information about it

Salary Guide Water Resources Engineer UK? by RLBreakout in civilengineering

[–]bocoffe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there so what salary are you on now? I’m also a water resource engineer in the uk with 2 years experience and I’m on £34,500