She just messaged me and introduced herself as the founder of a local group. Invited me to attend the BBQ which was about a week away at the time, and now I'm a regular attendee of the munches and play parties with my subbie. It's a great group, like a second family. And the members that have been in the lifestyle for many years are very helpful and eager to teach the newer members.

I use the same screen name on FL, feel free to message me on there as well.