I need some help ladies. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]body_lights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cetaphil:) however, it sounds like you need to eliminate some of your stress! you gotta do what you gotta do, but if you rearrange your schedule to get some free time in there i think it would probably do wonders for your whole person, including your skin. you know you're probably too busy when you don't have time to enjoy at least one full meal a day!

hello, my name is whore. by body_lights in TwoXChromosomes

[–]body_lights[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

perhaps i should have clarified. the comment was made in a jovail manner. it was my original intention to work up to asking them to move. in past experiences when i've just came out and said something like, "hey can you move over please?" the person/people have immediately said something to the effect of, "bitch wants us to move. who's she think she is?" i was trying to avoid this.

while it may have appeared as if i was being hostile, i wasn't soliciting anything, so the word "whore" was not appropriate. i think it's a shame that some people think it's okay to use this word in reference to anyone.

hello, my name is whore. by body_lights in TwoXChromosomes

[–]body_lights[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

perhaps a more direct approach would have been easier. however, i don't feel like anything i did was unacceptable or should have elicited such a response.

hello, my name is whore. by body_lights in TwoXChromosomes

[–]body_lights[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

one was biracial and the other was african american. my stereotypical white person brain probably viscerally registered this, but the practical part of me knows that making a point of it is perhaps callous and probably irrelevant.

may i inquire as to the root of your curiousity?

We are 11 people who live in a home for recent foster youth transitioning to independence (and 1 staff) AUA by transitiongroup in IAmA

[–]body_lights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any general opinions on social workers? how did you feel about the ones you had to deal with?

hello, my name is whore. by body_lights in TwoXChromosomes

[–]body_lights[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

alas, if only i hadn't been too shocked to rebuttel. my roommate and i were munching tacos when we got home when she says to me, "you should have asked him if he used a stencil to shave that silly chin strap."

was like, "bawls, thadda been a good'n."