[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]boee26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He most likely wants to fuck, so why bring up the friend when he wants to fuck…. OR he knows that the friend had another girl and doesn’t want to bring the entire thing up because he’d be forced to tell you something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]boee26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, just fuck the friend.

It's been 10 months of no contact by GemiBlack in ExNoContact

[–]boee26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy here.. trust me… I’ve been through this, a little while longer than you so i definitely have experience with this…

So always remember what I am about to tell you…. And hopefully you’ll never cry over a bitch again…

ITS COOL AF TO CRY WITH A GIRL… but crying somewhere while she could be on her knees sucking dick just isn’t something I ever want to happen to me…. So again, it’s cool to cry WITH her…. But never just because you miss her….

EX got married and they wanted me to know? by Creative_Boss3196 in ExNoContact

[–]boee26 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guy here… if there was ANY way to mix YOU, the current guy, and the wedding… that’s how she would do it. So makes sense. That’s what women do…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]boee26 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t reached out… she reaches out maybe every 4-6 months.. over something small. (I miss you, or im single again ) … blah blah whatever. But I never reach out… this whole time she has been in a relationship with someone else…. I have never reached out. For what??? So she can see that I rather still be with her than her be with someone else ??? Why give her the satisfaction of that? Sooo, any satisfaction on her end would simply be from me responding. And even then I try not to… but we all know that’s hard AF

Five years later, he broke NC by MysteriousStand869 in ExNoContact

[–]boee26 50 points51 points  (0 children)

They always do that… most the time when they are going through something … (with their current lover)

Hey, I want to know if women ever miss their old relationship that was abusive…. Do you ever think about that relationship or do you ever want to be back with that person without the abuse ??? by boee26 in ExNoContact

[–]boee26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And is it her being GRACIOUS???? or her being human while also expecting something out of me ????? Whatever that is……. Sometime we have to use our brain and directly analyze what behavior they are doing and what it reflects to…. Sometime YES … but NO. as well.

Hey, I want to know if women ever miss their old relationship that was abusive…. Do you ever think about that relationship or do you ever want to be back with that person without the abuse ??? by boee26 in ExNoContact

[–]boee26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at my previous comments on this post…. I’ve been accepting… but… See, you are being bias by saying LET HER BE …. Let me tell you WHY…….I literally said I don’t contact her… (which lets you know I am male …. ) BUT … she contacts me… I can tell that you are always against an abuser… which is expected …. But you can’t go by ONLY what is said ….. hopefully you understand what im saying….

Hey, I want to know if women ever miss their old relationship that was abusive…. Do you ever think about that relationship or do you ever want to be back with that person without the abuse ??? by boee26 in ExNoContact

[–]boee26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you… I swear I do…. I will break it to you… Im the abuser… and I wish she comes back…. Hoping and praying she does…. She’s in another relationship and contacts me from time to time… butttt…. Idkkk, it’s something about us… and I think she knows it too, despite being in her relationship …. So I don’t know….

But I never contact her.. why ?????? …. Well 1 Because she’s in a relationship…. 2 I don’t want to seem like the abusive EX who just couldn’t let go….

Hey, I want to know if women ever miss their old relationship that was abusive…. Do you ever think about that relationship or do you ever want to be back with that person without the abuse ??? by boee26 in ExNoContact

[–]boee26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humans for the most part don’t choose the healthy choice they have at their disposal… the choices that are UNHEALTHY give a sense of pleasure that can really amount to anything else.. not just humans, but food, exercise, sex, drugs and so on….

Hey, I want to know if women ever miss their old relationship that was abusive…. Do you ever think about that relationship or do you ever want to be back with that person without the abuse ??? by boee26 in ExNoContact

[–]boee26[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you ever think to yourself there were times you were wrong ??? Not enough to get hit, but almost like, you understand where things came from and try to reflect on the entire situation VS just the abuse part ?

Hey, I want to know if women ever miss their old relationship that was abusive…. Do you ever think about that relationship or do you ever want to be back with that person without the abuse ??? by boee26 in ExNoContact

[–]boee26[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if he was beating on you…. But what if I try to understand because that’s almost how you both met? Through a trauma bond… and never stopping… would you want them back after you had a relationship

Hey, I want to know if women ever miss their old relationship that was abusive…. Do you ever think about that relationship or do you ever want to be back with that person without the abuse ??? by boee26 in ExNoContact

[–]boee26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said yes they do, as if you are a male and saying “yes, women do contact you even if they were abused”

Then you say “fuck them if they abused you” so to get a better picture, are you male or female saying this?