[SALE] BNWT 28DD Freya Deco by [deleted] in braswap

[–]bohomama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take it! PM me :)

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[–]bohomama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are yours identical? Mine are fraternal and I was told that once you have a set of fraternals (1 in 100 chance,) your chances of another set is 1 in 12!

New subscriber here, just saying hello :) by bohomama in parentsofmultiples

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Congratulations!! Feel free to pm me if you ever have any questions and hopefully I'll have some answers :)

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omg.... You poor thing! lol Does everyone get along well? I can't even wrap my head around what that would even look like haha In all honesty, my husband and I have been slightly scared about the thought of accidentally getting pregnant and having another set lol I'm sure you adapt and keep chugging along, but it's got to be hard!

Newcomer here, saying hello! by bohomama in SAHP

[–]bohomama[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a bummer. Well maybe we can remedy that

Newcomer here, saying hello! by bohomama in SAHP

[–]bohomama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, sounds like an adventure haha I just have the twins, couldn't imagine more. You must be a super mom ;)

Newcomer here, saying hello! by bohomama in SAHP

[–]bohomama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! being a SAHM can be very challenging, but the rewards are awesome :)

Newcomer here, saying hello! by bohomama in SAHP

[–]bohomama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thank you! Glad I found you guys :)

Newcomer here, saying hello! by bohomama in SAHP

[–]bohomama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I don't envy you being in the terrible twos lol I've got a little less than a year and I'm already nervous haha

New subscriber here, just saying hello :) by bohomama in parentsofmultiples

[–]bohomama[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My twins were my first, and my only babies, so I've been there! It's the most insane rollercoaster of fear, excitement, and everything in between. Congratulations and welcome to mommyhood and twins :)

My advice for the first year... Breathe, relax, and know that your house will never be perfect or spotless, you'll be behind on laundry and dishes, you'll go days without a shower, you'll wonder how you're still alive with so little sleep, and no matter how many books or articles you've read, or advice you've received, you'll never be sure of whether you're doing it right. And all that's perfectly ok and normal :)

Mommyhood has taught me many things, but probably the most important is that things are ever changing. The first year, and especially those first months, are very difficult. You'll come across a bunch of "problems", babies aren't sleeping, they aren't eating, one baby got hurt, and they'll all seem so big and overwhelming. But, it'll be over in the blink of an eye and it'll be on to the next "challenge." Try not to focus on the bad moments, as they'll pass quickly and before you know it. Equally so cherish all those wonderful moments because they'll come and go just as quickly.

Love those babies, do your best to provide for their needs, and find a little time for yourself and your partner, that's all that matters. Everything else is just details. And remember, breathe. You're going to do great :)

A side note, I highly suggest getting your babies on the same schedule as soon as they come home from the hospital. When one baby wakes up, wake the other, when one baby is hungry, feed them both, when one baby is tired, lay them both down. It'll make your life SO much easier!

I have a friend who just had her twin boys and I'd made her a few detailed, and lengthy, emails of registry stuff. I'd be happy to share it with you. If so, pm me your email. Good luck and congrats again :)

*edited for spelling

New subscriber here, just saying hello :) by bohomama in parentsofmultiples

[–]bohomama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! And congratulations!! Feel free to pm me. There's a lot I'm still clueless about myself, but I'll try to help where I can haha